Ok, I guess. I can't imagine being married to 2 women that nag and curse at me for not spending enough time with them.
Umar Johnson on Polygamy in the Black community
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Ok, I guess. I can't imagine being married to 2 women that nag and curse at me for not spending enough time with them.
I think mentally it doesn't seem like it would work because you are applying a polygamous relationship to a monogamous standard.
The brehs that have side chicks now and if they have children. They are doing things on the low sneaking around. If everything is out in the open nobody hiding anything but behaving like adults and not treating sex like a cardinal crime
They can plan for children just as a married couple does now
I'm in no way religious but it's funny how the majority of all your holy books speak of families origins with more than one wife
The brehs that have side chicks now and if they have children. They are doing things on the low sneaking around. If everything is out in the open nobody hiding anything but behaving like adults and not treating sex like a cardinal crime
They can plan for children just as a married couple does now
I'm in no way religious but it's funny how the majority of all your holy books speak of families origins with more than one wife
CriticalThought
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I hear what you're saying, but if there's excess black women who want to make black babies then what other alternative do they have except more of the same? And there's some serious cracks in the status quo right now with black women doing it alone. I agree with that premise, but what makes those black women not "quality"? An artificial shortage of black men makes a black woman who's a 7 a 6-6.5 based on supply and demand principles alone. I'd rather see her with a black husband than a non-black one (I don't play that we are the world shyt). We're in a battle for our survival, so as much as I can appreciate traditional approaches, those very same approaches can ensure our demise. I'm pragmatic with this because I believe radical problems call for radical solutions. It's a stop-gap measure that helps stem the bleeding. Once balance is re-established it's good. It's not like every black person has to do it. But if the issue is a man with multiple women, then calling them "wives" lays a better foundation in my belief.
It's a numbers game. I'm not willing to call all those black women "non-quality" when plenty of them are. Why have hundreds of thousands marry out? Then produce biracials which can be another thorn in Black America's side? Which in turn creates more issues down the road to deal with. In addition to even more Blacks not being created (in addition to the thousands murdered through abortion) it's energy loss. In my view its a win-win situation. She has a spouse, and the kids are black. For better or worse it's still a numbers game, and we need those numbers.
That'd be between those 3 folks. If they all wanted to stay under one roof cool. 2 homes, cool...pool those resources and buy even more homes...even better. That's between those 3 and how they decide the best way to in going about it. That's not my concern, that's for them to decide.
newworldafro
DeeperThanRapBiggerThanHH
#Bigamy2016
I wonder how today's feminism would interact with bigamy or polygamy??
It would be chaos and 
isms
I couldn't handle it, but I won't knock the next man and woman IF they are mentally, emotionally, and economically able to do so. What I don't understand is grown men giving reasons as to why other grown men shouldn't be able to practice polygamy
If a man wants to add another wife legally, has the resources and right mindset, why not?
Dudes are only worried about the girls they think they have a chance with, running off and doing it open and legal with pro-athletes, wealthy businessmen, doctors, lawyers etc etc... They like being able to shame women and write them off as side-hoes and baby-mamas, but it's difficult to do that when everything is out in the open and legal, and the women are cool with it and each other.
Overall, I don't see this type of arrangement working right now. Too many egos and too much petty competition between and within the genders.
If a man wants to add another wife legally, has the resources and right mindset, why not?
Dudes are only worried about the girls they think they have a chance with, running off and doing it open and legal with pro-athletes, wealthy businessmen, doctors, lawyers etc etc... They like being able to shame women and write them off as side-hoes and baby-mamas, but it's difficult to do that when everything is out in the open and legal, and the women are cool with it and each other.
Overall, I don't see this type of arrangement working right now. Too many egos and too much petty competition between and within the genders.
Cabbage Patch
The Media scene in V is for Vendetta is the clue
End discussion.
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
Honestly if you have the resources then you can be a polygamist. But if you are broke as hell then it doesnt make sense. Polygamy is like libertrairinism it sounds good in theory but in practice it is a recipe for disaster. It wont solve our problems and it will be more dysfuntional.
How is polygamy any different than a man getting a bunch of women pregnant then paying child support?
Because aint no child support in Polygamous societies and the families live communal.
Polygamy can not exist in an American Society, and serves no purpose for the most part in this type of society.
Well obviously I was talking about in America
and obviously my response addressed America.Well obviously I was talking about in America
