She's projecting her insecurities onto others.
Probably has some decent options but feels they're beneath her. The only guys she wants are the men EVERY woman wants. She can't compete at a high enough level to get "those" men....so now, all men are bad.
If a man wants to date, smash and marry higher quality women (without paying, simping etc), he understands that HE must level-up his looks, income and game. Women are not wired to "level-up" themselves for a man. They might level-up by starting a biz or some other enterprise to increase financial independence.....but you almost never see a woman upgrading herself to find a higher class of man. They want the higher class of man but not enough to reach for him. They just want him to magically come to his senses and approach.