does the NBA not have a program where they tell these dudes what time it is?
how do you get one of them pregnant when its obvious thats what they want?
Obvious to you and I. He's a kid!
Someone who makes it to the NBA has (figuratively) had things handed to them SOCIALLY. They likely haven't worked hard to cultivate relationships or understand women, cause what's to understand - they've been a star at every level so women have been ready and willing, dudes have been wanting to be your friend.
So when they get to the league now, where the women ain't just looking to bask in the joy of saying they date a star player, they're looking to secure their future (like all women are, so I ain't mad at them for it), how the hell is a kid like that gonna see it coming...?