Problem is people arent honest and are always fighting a side. We as a society have determined that 18 is the age of consent and that people younger than that arent mentally or emotionally adults. That doesnt mean that they aren’t physically mature. That doesnt mean that your hormones dont respond to a few months or know the difference between 17 and 18 so we’re just lying if we say no man or woman should ever find someone not quite 18 attractive. What makes us humans and productive members of society as well as mature adults is that we move on from that and dont allow any initial, uncontrollable attraction to linger.
Yea I never really get into these conversations because the sentiments and intentions are so disingenuous and fake. You have 2019/2020 mindstate being pressed on society 20 and 30 and 100 years ago. Fine, people are more intelligent with their decisions and how they handle things today, but it's unfair to then go back in time and judge people living in a different time and circumstances and state of thinking
Sorry to inform the general public, but 20 years ago, nobody saw anything wrong with men in they early 20s dating 15-18 year olds. I would be lying If I said otherwise.
And not to mention, back then it was seen as a accomplishment for a young girl to have a older man. These were not girls with pigtails wearing Betty boop gear, these were young girls dressed as older women sneaking into clubs and house parties full of older men. They smoked and drank like they was grown. Hell alot of them had a child by time they were 16.
Not saying it's right, just saying times were different and it's a bit wrong to go back with harsh judgment like that.
My grandfather was in his 20s and my grandmother was 16. I dont condemn him. It's the way things were in the 50s when they met. We know better now And that's good, but its unfair to go back and judge.
Yeah shyt is retarded. This literally no different between 17 and 18. These broads don't mature more in one year. It's just the standard in modern society.Problem is people arent honest and are always fighting a side. We as a society have determined that 18 is the age of consent and that people younger than that arent mentally or emotionally adults. That doesnt mean that they aren’t physically mature. That doesnt mean that your hormones dont respond to a few months or know the difference between 17 and 18 so we’re just lying if we say no man or woman should ever find someone not quite 18 attractive. What makes us humans and productive members of society as well as mature adults is that we move on from that and dont allow any initial, uncontrollable attraction to linger.
Yea it's kinda crazy , because the outrage is literally attached to age of consent laws, that can be changed tomorrow lol so its outrage if a 22 year old dates a 16 year old now but if the age of consent changes tomorrow that outrage vanishes? LolYeah shyt is retarded. This literally no different between 17 and 18. These broads don't mature more in one year. It's just the standard in modern society.
It's like. OMG dude is in his 20's smashing a 17 year old. Get the pitch forks and send him to jail.
But dude is in 30's smashing an 18 yo and that is perfectly fine![]()
Like I said...a lot of dudes on here (not saying you) are going to front...I'm being real with mine. Not saying it's not wrong, just knowing how I was at that age.
Yea it's kinda crazy , because the outrage is literally attached to age of consent laws, that can be changed tomorrow lol so its outrage if a 22 year old dates a 16 year old now but if the age of consent changes tomorrow that outrage vanishes? Lol
Pedophiles are grown ass people who mess with little kids, and the blurred lines around age of consent shouldn't be placed on that same level. It's doing a disservice to the actual kids who are getting abused. 15,16,17 year old teenagers who see pride and want to be the envy of their friends by dating an older 19,20,21 year old is an entirely different subject and should be treated as such.
This is Beyonce at 16.. nikkas is reaching.I know niccas want to front for the Coli, but Ima be real...I know how I was when I was 22, 23. If I was on tour at that age with a 17 year old that looked like Beyonce did I wouldn't press it, but if she threw it I would catch it...
When you get in your 30's you realize that your early 20's were just an extension of your teenage years. I did a lot of dumb shyt when I was that age so I would've had little to no discretion.
Any man on earth spending a lot of time around a 16-17 year old Beyoncé would at least desire to fukk.
Yeah it's true but it begs the question why would a man in his 20s want to hook up with a 16 year old? What's the appeal? There's only a couple reasons why and none of them are good.16 is legal in some States..
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TBH bro...
I dont think society is getting smarter or better...
Ur grandpa and ur grandma stayed together 4ever...
25yrs ago my teenage sisters boyfriend was in his 20s... coolest nikka ever. Respectful, had his shyt together, treated her great and took care of her.
My sister was never an immature teen tho, she was always serious and looked like a 25yr old at 16 smh lol
But times were so different back then.
None of the good looking young girls dated young nikkaz their age.
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