Travis Hunters GF admits that she has an attitude problem and that he wasn’t her type

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KidJSoul said:
Yeah it's difficult for it to grow. It does for some guys.

But then any random "ick" or flaw can turn it off eventually. And she'll be fantasizing of someone else.

What sucks is that the woman will also not only avoid doing things for him she'd do for others, but she will make him feel bad for even for desiring it.
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Her first impressions of you are the most powerful and influential. They set the tone for the rest of the relationship. Her initial attitude towards you trickles down on every move she does with you and colors every feeling she has about you. You could be the most perfect man with the best values and qualities and be the most compatible soulmate for her, if she didn’t suddenly « love » you at first sight in the most ideal context in her mind , she will never be truly enamored with you. Many women really want love to happen by serendipity -the dream of the idyllic love story(right man at the right time, at the right place in the right situation, meeting her man by accident, a completely unplanned meeting , almost as if it was destiny for her and him to meet) to come true. In their minds they believe love between a man and a woman should be like in romantic comedies. They really think it should happen like that. They hate forced moments, deliberate intentions and planned/organized situations. For them, they feel that pre-planned romantic moves are cringe and lack magic, authenticity and spontaneity. They don’t want to pull the curtain and see the machinery(reality? ) behind the illusion of romance. They feel romance should happen naturally, through fate and not by deliberate will and purpose. But they don’t know that unlike women, men have to make serious and constant efforts, and get out of their comfort zone if they want to meet women and keep them in their lives. Men act , Women react. Men are direct, ( directly going after women, at women, talking to them) women are indirect ( they love to play coy and send subtle choosing signals)

Men have the first words, but women get the last word. Men take risks and face plenty of rejections from many women, women rarely face direct and constant rejections from men. For biological and social reasons, the vast majority of women rarely approach men and make the first move. Women can afford to be delusional and passive because men make things happen and create opportunities for romance and dating between women and men.

That’s why they love naturally attractive men (genetics, favorable upbringing/environnment and inherited personality traits) and look down on less fortunate/ gifted people who worked really hard to be attractive. They find the latter creepy, manipulative and inauthentic. They prefer the former because they were attractive by just being themselves. They see the former as genuine, the latter as frauds.


It’s difficult to comeback and change the minds of people after a less than ideal first impression. It’s true that with these women, you could be almost perfect for most of the time and she might never say anything but if you fold once, she will remind you of it Everytime. But the man she really lusts for can do no wrong in her eyes and she will always make excuses for him(as long as she’s attracted to him though )

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theflyest said:
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Love is an action, not a saying. If she's taking care of her gf duties and making him happy then who cares. Like people said, he's got some unique features so girls who are viscerally attracted to him will be hard to find. He just needs a girl who plays her position to be good
 
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Her first impressions of you are the most powerful and influential. They set the tone for the rest of the relationship. Her initial attitude towards you trickles down on every move she does with you and colors every feeling she has about you. You could be the most perfect man with the best values and qualities and be the most compatible soulmate for her, if she didn’t suddenly « love » you at first sight in the most ideal context in her mind , she will never be truly enamored with you. Many women really want love to happen by serendipity -the dream of the idyllic love story(right man at the right time, at the right place in the right situation, meeting her man by accident, a completely unplanned meeting , almost as if it was destiny for her and him to meet) to come true. In their minds they believe love between a man and a woman should be like in romantic comedies. They really think it should happen like that. They hate forced moments, deliberate intentions and planned/organized situations. For them, they feel that pre-planned romantic moves are cringe and lack magic, authenticity and spontaneity. They don’t want to pull the curtain and see the machinery(reality? ) behind the illusion of romance. They feel romance should happen naturally, through fate and not by deliberate will and purpose. But they don’t know that unlike women, men have to make serious and constant efforts, and get out of their comfort zone if they want to meet women and keep them in their lives. Men act , Women react. Men directly choose women, women send subtle choosing signals. Men have the first words, but women get the last word. Men take risks and face plenty of rejections from many women, women rarely face direct and constant rejections from men. For biological and social reasons, the vast majority of women rarely approach men and make the first move. Women can afford to be delusional and passive because men make things happen and create opportunities for romance and dating between women and men.

That’s why they love naturally attractive (genetics, favorable upbringing/environment and inherited personality traits) and look down on people who worked hard to be attractive. They find the latter creepy, manipulative and inauthentic. They prefer the former because they were attractive by being themselves. They see the former as genuine, the latter as frauds.


It’s difficult to comeback and change the minds of people after a less than ideal first impression. It’s true that with these women, you could be almost perfect for most of the time and she might never say anything but if you fold once, she will remind you of it Every time. But the man she really lusts for can do no wrong in her eyes and she will always make excuses for him(as long as she’s attracted to him though )
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I agree with everything, except the red bolded. Self improvement (whether it be from working out, or other "looksmaxxing" routines) have saved ALOT of dudes from dying alone & sexless. I would argue women love that shyt more over the former, because they saw the cards you were dealt with, and STILL found a way to push through. Women love winners regardless. Whether it be through lucky genetics, or telling God to go fukk himself/"I make my own destiny".

As for the blue bolded. You could be blessed aesthetically, but if she doesn't feel anything with you, or you fukk her the wrong way, it's over for you.

Looks can't save you from trash dikk..
 
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