At first I looked at this crazy but now I realize I WAS TRIPPING
We as ASS BACKWARDS in the black communty
Who gives AF about a 21 year olds GF who he was with since HIGH SCHOOL that we NEVER MET
Also she is the mother of his unborn child. He is about to secure genertaional wealth. And marry the mother of his unborn child and secure this wealth for his childs future.
If you read this on paper you would say he was a honorable SMART man, as every other culture does, but in the forever childlike mindset of OUR american black culture, we mocking him.
While we celebrate Tryreek Hill and Nick Cannon & Cam Newton who have 9-10 kids with multple women from all over the USA creating broken homes
This man is in love, wants to be at home with his wife and child, which will for the most part keep him out of the way of the groupies, $$ chasers, drunks (he doesnt drink smoke or party) or robbers. He will be raising his child at home, and not have the opportuniity to impreganted 5 women across the US and get robbed in the middle of night in a club.
Who gives AF why she is there? An older man taught me a few years ago how stupid we look at marriage in our community. Its a contract. Its not just about love, its not a Disney movie. Its two people receiving what they value in life while creating opportunity and structure and love for their child. If he loves how she makes him feel, and she loves what he provides, and they provide a home for thier child, they are blessed.
Instead we listen to grifting podcasters who spend al their time berating Onlyfans models about going 50/50 on dates.
Backwards
