Yes. You tell them the truth, what they do with it is their problem. You did what was right at the end of the day, and really that is all that matters.I hear you. I rather a nikka get upset with what I say as oppose to not saying nothing. I had friendships with nikkas I grew up with put in jeopardy because of it. nikkas call they self putting me on time out. And just like clock work nikkas come back with the "I should have listen to you. It would have saved me time and money".