Have you changed your situation? Still living in fukkery? And there's never a shortage of married chicks at any job, is there?
Oh that was a LONG time ago.... so I've changed IMMENSELY!!!!!
My advice, since your a young man, stay AWAY from those fine ass older flirtatious women. I didn't even realize how much more I could've had, until I looked back on the situations speaking to friends I made back in those days. Just get to your money, and more importantly your work experience up.
Luckily for me, I didn't have any consequences.
Another thing, do not measure yourself to others. Your 20's will most likely be about growth and learning. This may not apply to you, but I notice this in a lot of delusional youngstas (don't expect to be balling in your 20's). The girls around your age will say slick shyte about lack of money, are more than likely are dealing with nikkas my age with money on the low and are projecting. Don't mind them because there souls will be depleted by the age of 27.
SAVE SAVE SAVE your money. Shoot for a years pay and put it in an interest bearing account seperate from your primary bank.
Also, find you a down to earth spouse by the time you are around 35. Thats gonna be very hard to do in this day n age, because of the lack of maturity in women these days, but keep on hunting.
And if things go bad, just chalk it up to life experience.
And please do NOT get any chicks preggo or have to have abortions. That shyt is psychologically scarring you you as well.