To the colli gents... a question...

appreesh

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Shes gotta prove it, without showing that shes trying to prove it.

The shyt she does for you (beyond materialism) when nobodys looking/paying attention is a pretty good indicator.
- ex. Ppl who donate to charity without needing to alert the media, post on facebook, and brag to anybody that will listen.


How she treats you when she assumes you have nothing of material value is another good indicator.


Also, shes got to love (not be obsessed with) herself. Theres a difference between loving somebody (which does include some dependance), and being completely reliant on another individual for "love".
 

Petty Crocker

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Look her back deeply in her eyes, and say "whats ya gmail, facebook, and twitter passwords, ma"

:obama:

Would pass all three tests with flying colors..lol..no facebook or twitter..and gmail is not my primary account..lol

:win:

But I agree with some of the other posts..I think a year in the relationship is enough time for most women to develop those strong feelings..If you have no reason to doubt her, I would believe her.
 

Steve Piffler

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love is a chick being there when you lost a leg
or is disfigured in a fire or some shyt.

naw bytch you just like me alot...
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:why: a nikka gotta be disfigured to get love now? :whoo:
 

Mr. Pink

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I would be...willing to believe her. After all, what does it say about yourself if you don't think someone could honestly fall in love with you?
But that doesn't mean I'm going to let my guard down and suddenly change the way I deal with women.

I guess what I'm trying to say is I wouldn't be all lovey dovey "I luv u more than life itself gurl, till death do us part!!", but I wouldn't be all "this sneaky deceptive slore is trying to play me!" either...
 

JLova

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Does it not go without saying that her actions would be taken under consideration? I was waiting for the usual suspects...they didn't show up, though.
 

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i'd take it as it is. there's no point in not believing someone unless they gave you a reason not to. if she hasn't done anything to make you disbelieve her words then you should accept them...
 
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