“ TLR hates black women”

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I see a lot of responses and points being made in this thread.

Quick question.

How many of y’all are married to a Black woman and/or raising Black daughters?

It’s nice to throw platitudes around about how wonderful someone is. But I don’t want to hear about how much you love all women, when you haven’t even committed to protecting, providing for and nurturing ONE.
 

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I see a lot of responses and points being made in this thread.

Quick question.

How many of y’all are married to a Black woman and/or raising Black daughters?

It’s nice to throw platitudes around about how wonderful someone is. But I don’t want to hear about how much you love all women, when you haven’t even committed to protecting, providing for and nurturing ONE.
I am. I am married to a Black woman with my same complexion and have one daughter. I have also raised my youngest sister.
 

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None of what you said is based in any type of real logic. You’re basically replying with “what about the men? :mjcry:” when it doesn’t apply.

At the end of the day, something like 19% of black men are creating 80% of black single mothers.

So ask yourself, is it more logical to focus on the 80% (the majority) or the 19% (the minority)?

In any group, there will always be a fringe population that doesn’t care about the overall well-being of their community.

But for some reason black men are expected to try and change those people, while other groups will simply abandon them (which forces a change, in some cases).

The overall purpose of my responses to you have been to counter the bullshyt narrative being pushed in here that black men just don’t want to do better.

Black women can do what they please, y’all always have anyway.

I’m of the opinion that America is done, anyway, so the concept of anyone of any race trying to build a community in Babylon is futile in the back of my mind.
Nope. I’m applying the same logic that you are. Pull up the stats to show that 19% of Brehs are responsible for 80% of OOW pregnancies.

And actually, if this stat is true, focusing on both makes sense. If the majority isn’t listening to you, than at the very least the minority is easy to reach because they are fewer. if those few men started using protection they wouldn’t that also prevent the women from getting pregnant?

And if preaching to the majority isn’t working because they still not choosing right, maybe focusing solely on one isn’t aa helpful as focusing and expecting more from both.

And where did I say that bm don’t want to do better? My point has been that both bw and bm are responsible for children being made, and the state of the community. Neither should be absolved. Why is it so hard for y’all to acknowledge that both groups have work to do, because they do.

And for the record I don’t think all Brehs on here hate bw. I think there are a few who do and they are very vocal and obvious about it. Most on here don’t but there is an obvious disconnect going on.
 

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Nope. I’m applying the same logic that you are. Pull up the stats to show that 19% of Brehs are responsible for 80% of OOW pregnancies.

And actually, if this stat is true, focusing on both makes sense. If the majority isn’t listening to you, than at the very least the minority is easy to reach because they are fewer. if those few men started using protection they wouldn’t that also prevent the women from getting pregnant?

And if preaching to the majority isn’t working because they still not choosing right, maybe focusing solely on one isn’t aa helpful as focusing and expecting more from both.

And where did I say that bm don’t want to do better? My point has been that both bw and bm are responsible for children being made, and the state of the community. Neither should be absolved. Why is it so hard for y’all to acknowledge that both groups have work to do, because they do.

And for the record I don’t think all Brehs on here hate bw. I think there are a few who do and they are very vocal and obvious about it. Most on here don’t but there is an obvious disconnect going on.

And no, it doesn’t make sense to focus on both sides.

You keep overlooking the fact that, again, amongst every community of people there will always be that minority who simply doesn’t give a fukk.

Let me break it down to you like this.

The War on Drugs in this country has failed because the government focuses on the dealers, rather than the abusers (who outnumber the dealers by a huge margin).

The dealers don’t give a fukk and as long as drugs are illegal there will always be a group of people willing to break the law to enrich themselves.

So the logical solution is to focus on helping the abusers, which is what they’ve started doing now that CACs are experiencing an opioid crisis.

When you decrease the demand, you decrease the supply.

Tell young black women to stop fukking with the dregs of our community. Show them the outcomes of it. Start shaming their asses instead of making excuses for them.

And watch how quick shyt changes.

That’s the most frustrating shyt about all of this, it’s the fact that most of our issues could be solved damn near overnight if people would quit doing stupid shyt.

Perhaps you didn’t say that BM don’t want to do better, but the narrative that we share an equal amount of responsibility in our families being the way they are implies so.

And it’s even more insulting when the data literally implies otherwise.
 
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I see a lot of responses and points being made in this thread.

Quick question.

How many of y’all are married to a Black woman and/or raising Black daughters?

It’s nice to throw platitudes around about how wonderful someone is. But I don’t want to hear about how much you love all women, when you haven’t even committed to protecting, providing for and nurturing ONE.
This is a strawman.

Nobody is in here talking about needing to love all women; that has never, at any point, been the argument. The debate is centered around how men speak about BW, as a whole, and how the the lowest-hanging fruit of degenerate BW is not reflective of BW, in general. It's also about how these women in question are not entirely to blame for the way they are, but men share a responsibility for the part they play too in creating this dynamic.

It's made worse by the fact these poisons of the community make out like they're framing this as criticism, when there's nothing constructive about saying shyt like "Black women are incredibly violent", "Modern Black women born after 85 are incapable of raising well rounded sons", "Black women under 35 gonna be the number #1 females with monkeypox from sucking and fukking these non Harlem residents." etc.
 
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The Crimson Cure breaks down the BS of 'Strong, Independent Black Woman' and how black feminazi co-opted the white feminazi talking point 'Black women had to be strong. I bet the simps think that she hates black women too?


Caroline Bird (a white feminist) used the exact same talking points in her article called 'Black Womanpower' in the 1960s as black feminazis had done in the 1960s to this very day. It shows that black feminazis and their adjacents lack creativity and integrity.
 

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Black homicide is real, black male homicide is realer.

Look at the number of black male rappers that have died, prematurely, for doing shyt like getting food. Name the female rappers that have died the same way?

Again, y’all worried about women twerking, but not y’all dying or the fact the no one seems to care you’re dying. If country music singers met their maker at the rate black male rappers did, it would be some outrage.

you're right.:francis:

unfortunately lotta cash desto and boog the bandit died prematurely too.
 
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