Tinder Experiment Shows How Girls Respond To Creepy Messages From Attractive Guys

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Lol but isn’t it human nature to be receptive to people you are attracted to?

If u are receptive to them, it’s not disrespectful. Not everybody gets the same thing.

As much as men do this, I wouldn’t expect them to problematize this phenomenon or make this such a big issue.
Dudes don’t marry every chick they meet. They treat some chicks like side pieces, put up with crazy shyt from some chicks if they got big asses. Meanwhile they clown/ghost and call chicks they not attracted to all kinds of names even if those chicks be nicer than the ones running game on them.

Im so confused as to why men get shocked and appalled at women doing simple human being shyt.
Of course somebody’s unwanted advances are creepy and weird.

What if a chick that looked like this was trying to talk smack sexually to you.
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“Nikka I bet you can’t handle all this. I’d ride that dikk until you passed out. But I ain’t free”

Dudes be all kinds of :scust::mjcry::hubie::camby::rudy::wtf:

Now imagine this chick talking disrespectfully or sexually to you.
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“Nikka I bet you can’t handle all this. I’d ride that dikk until you passed out. But I ain’t free”

Hell she could even say worse and dudes wouldn’t care. She could literally ruin some dudes lives. Still wouldn’t care. Why? Because you’re attracted to her.

That makes sense to me. I just don’t understand why we don’t understand the same dynamic when it comes to females.

Im curious as to what dudes think should happen. Do they think women supposed to entertain men they not attracted to? Are men gonna do the same?
Are they gon sit and listen to the ugly duchess talk that shyt even when she makes ur meat run and hide?:wtf:
If somebody u not feeling persists in trying to get at you...yeah...it’s creepy and uncomfortable as fukk. I just thought this was a universal feeling.

I never really got that dynamic when dudes complain about women choosing up on some dudes vs. others.

Most guys know that, the issue is that we're taught differently growing up.

Like, let's be honest... you're saying this, but if a guy were to bring this topic up to other women, most of them would front.

And that's the issue with this dating game. You may not know it, but as guys, we're constantly get told a reality that women aren't shallow and that their attraction is based on morals, just so they can look good.

I'm lucky I had a mom that kept it real with me. She's a real O.G:salute:

But because most won't, we have silly threads like these all across the land.
 
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Many people give a shyt about how attractive somebody is. It directly increases your value in society.
Depends on the situation. I doubt people care about what a person looks like when it comes to saving lives for example.

We live in a effeminate society.
Excuses for silly behaviour is the path to ruin.

Actractive people(men and women) get hated on alot these days because of the bitterness of others. Alot have more enemies than friends, not because of arrogance, but because of jealousy, regardless of how nice they try hard to be. It's not spoken of much because people assume that if you're attractive everything goes your way.
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I don't think that the average Black cat realizes that pictures of you chilling overseas or doing some fly shyt matters way more than you taking a picture with your shirt off or beside a fly car.
In the online dating world you're selling your brand. What lifestyle can a woman expect with you?

Got pics of yourself with famous people? Got pics with animals? Pics with family? Pics at famous landmarks/exotic locations?

Women desire novelty and variety of experience. Being a normal guy isnt enough online.

Otherwise you just have to network in person. Go to events, meet people who will set you up with their single friends or just start kicking it with a woman while you're at an event for something you're interested in like a convention, sporting event, music festival or concert, etc.

For some negus, online dating is a dub and real life networks are how they eat. Versatility is important. The men who do the best are the ones who put in work on their appearance and arent afraid to talk to new people and branch out from existing friend groups.
 

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Most guys know that, the issue is that we're taught differently growing up.

Like, let's be honest... you're saying this, but if a guy were to bring this topic up to other women, most of them would front.

And that's the issue with this dating game. You may not know it, but as guys, we're constantly get told a reality that women aren't shallow and that their attraction is based on morals, just so they can look good.

I'm lucky I had a mom that kept it real with me. She's a real O.G:salute:

But because most won't, we have silly threads like these all across the land.

Yup, this is why we have the term hoe babble, because women will say they want a man who is sweet, kind, respectful, educated.. blah blah. Even in this thread a woman said only low self esteem chicks would fall for this :comeon:

But when Mr supermodel shows up all that goes out the window quick. Remember this:

 

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Of course the wahmen on LSA are telling on themselves when it comes to this situation.

I mean you have some of them literally saying that ugly men have to be nice to wahmen. Yet they won't hold attractive men to the same standards! :mjlol::lolbron:
And they wonder why they're still single!?:mjlol::lolbron:

My god, Western women are a failed experiment.
I'm glad that there has been a rise in 'femcels'. It just exposes how entitled women can get.

Femcels (minus a very small minority) are just picky girls with issues.
 

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I don’t get it. They are attracted to the dudes, so of course they are receptive to the dudes coming on to them...:gucci::dwillhuh::skip:
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They make less attractive dudes treat them with respect is the point :unimpressed:at least women should be honest and say the way they allow a man to treat them is contingent on the way a man looks or his money.

All we ask for is honesty not even asking for fairness or consistency :manny:
 

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They make less attractive dudes treat them with respect is the point :unimpressed:at least women should be honest and say the way they allow a man to treat them is contingent on the way a man looks or his money.

All we ask for is honesty not even asking for fairness or consistency :manny:

Honesty would make dating so much easier.

But as long as we delude people, there will continue to be hurt, sorrow, and bitterness.
 

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Honesty would make dating so much easier.

But as long as we delude people, there will continue to be hurt, sorrow, and bitterness.
This is why I tell dudes to make yourself the prize. Even if you think you're uglygang you can still create a higher SMV for yourself. Get your fitness and finances in order and you'll be the prize. You look at women totally different once you become the prize. They gotta prove themselves to you...it's a great feeling brehs :wow:
 

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The key here I take outta it is to be attractive in your photos to signify status of being confident and through yo conversation dominance will lead open doors to women trying to quarantine and chill. Post is genius!

Yup, you know I took notes and going to bump it up a notch. Not bad TheColi, Not bad at all. . . .
Professional looking photos plus travel photos is the game changer. Add another of you doing a cool hobby.

but you didn’t hear that from me:sas2:
 
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