Tinder Experiment Shows How Girls Respond To Creepy Messages From Attractive Guys

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So when you couple that with women being more selective in general.

This sort of explains why invading armies raped the women of the lands they conquered. Army of sexually frustrated men on top of it.

Should men take??????

I dont think we should


Not at all


However men desire to procreate just as much as women and with the lack of large scale conflict to eliminate much of the male population.

How do you think this frustration will play out in the long term?


There are a lot of ugly chicks who are playing above their weight because us men will fukk just about anychick with a nice body or even just a phat ass or supple t*ts

Its our nature.

Women have to be real with themselves on who they see the long game with

Everybody punches above their weight and calms down when reality hits them. So they either settle and chill out or lone wolf it.

Physically, men have always been more selective than women have. Sure a man will fukk anything, but marry, be seen with in public?!
Nah, dudes be choosy as hell. A rich ugly chick has nothing she can leverage to attract a husband.
A rich ugly dude can at least leverage his money.
There’s plenty of gorgeous chicks choking on wrinkled ugly nuts. Far more than the reverse.

Even so, women may complain but they just play the game. Why do u think women get so obsessed with makeup/plastic surgery/beauty wizardry. It’s b/c they know how importance appearance is to men.

Average chicks and average dudes are both gassed. Dudes watch porn and IG and think they entitled to perfect looking women, not even recognizing the idea that the women they lusting over don’t even look like that when they take off the weave, lashes, make up, filters. So they addicted to a fantasy. Some dudes don’t even know what natural asses look like.

Women watch romance movies, smut literature, Real Housewives and think they entitled to a rich, fine, protector/provider, who is also in touch with his feelings, and just accepts her mediocre ass with her fupa and struggling edges.

What is going to happen is that average people who live in reality will pick other average people. They will get married and procreate.

The outliers living in fantasy land will self-destruct or die without reproducing. My only issue is when dudes think this is something unique to women. Because it’s not.

As far as rape and taking goes, this is why I encourage women to get armed and protect themselves. The day and age of women “taking one for the team” is over. A lot of women would rather die alone than be violated by somebody they don’t want.
I mean...can u blame them?

 

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It's not the same thing. Men aren't scared that a ugly bytch is gonna rape him.

Secondly women aren't nearly as aggressive as men are and damn less likely to press the issue and risk rejection.

thirdly dudes have an extreme sexual urge put a horny dude in the right situation where there's no other females around and they'll get the dikk.

lastly most if not all dudes have an awkward period/ dry spell so actually men are way more understanding than a halfway fly young chippie who's been pressed out ever since she was 12.

Yep and there’s all of these factors too when it comes to the creepy stuff. It can quickly become more than just a “I’m not attracted to the dude” situation b/c of biological vulnerability.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I hope y’all average and below average looking brehs don’t think you can get away with being like this.

And I hope you know women who allow men to disrespect her tend to be the crazy insecure ones that start arguments over petty things, and constantly accuse you of cheating.

And don’t think for one second that average looking women are more loyal than attractive women.

They can and I’ve seen it. Maybe not on tinder where chicks judging you solely off of your pictures but if a chick is feeling you, you can damn near say anything and she gon be like “ooh Johnny you so crazy”

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Think about this.........the world would have ended thousands of years ago if both of these posts were actually reality.........

It's a different world today than it was in the past. A lot of nikkas over 30 dont understand how much online dating has changed the game.

Womens expectations now are higher than ever. It used to be "he comes from a good family, hes got good manners and is a generous person." That used to be enough. Now its "how tall is he? Is he flabby and sick looking? Is he making more money than me? Is he the type of dude other women would want?"

My online dating prospects changed drastically because I put on some muscle and found a better barbershop. I wish things werent that way and women will actually choose based on reading your profile but facts are facts. A well balanced personality and humor are bonuses, not requirements now to spark attraction.

Girls I would've never thought would be freaks ready to bust it open for me barely knowing me because I wear a t shirt on the third date. shyt is wild and it is what it is. Confidence is a part of it, but people always fail to mention that confidence comes from something.

Putting in time in the gym? Confidence
Grind real hard and starting a business? Confidence

Telling nigas to be confident if they're not working towards anything is like telling someone who is losing a fight "hey just hit him and whoop his ass" they ain't trying to hear that.

 

[Dont@Me]

Lol but isn’t it human nature to be receptive to people you are attracted to?

If u are receptive to them, it’s not disrespectful. Not everybody gets the same thing.

As much as men do this, I wouldn’t expect them to problematize this phenomenon or make this such a big issue.
Dudes don’t marry every chick they meet. They treat some chicks like side pieces, put up with crazy shyt from some chicks if they got big asses. Meanwhile they clown/ghost and call chicks they not attracted to all kinds of names even if those chicks be nicer than the ones running game on them.

Im so confused as to why men get shocked and appalled at women doing simple human being shyt.
Of course somebody’s unwanted advances are creepy and weird.

What if a chick that looked like this was trying to talk smack sexually to you.

“Nikka I bet you can’t handle all this. I’d ride that dikk until you passed out. But I ain’t free”

Dudes be all kinds of

Now imagine this chick talking disrespectfully or sexually to you.

“Nikka I bet you can’t handle all this. I’d ride that dikk until you passed out. But I ain’t free”

Hell she could even say worse and dudes wouldn’t care. She could literally ruin some dudes lives. Still wouldn’t care. Why? Because you’re attracted to her.

That makes sense to me. I just don’t understand why we don’t understand the same dynamic when it comes to females.

Im curious as to what dudes think should happen. Do they think women supposed to entertain men they not attracted to? Are men gonna do the same?
Are they gon sit and listen to the ugly duchess talk that shyt even when she makes ur meat run and hide?
If somebody u not feeling persists in trying to get at you...yeah...it’s creepy and uncomfortable as fukk. I just thought this was a universal feeling.

I never really got that dynamic when dudes complain about women choosing up on some dudes vs. others.

i like you as a poster and you actually give good insight and logic into the female perspective.

i cannot speak for other dudes, but any ugly chick gettin at me has still always got respect from me (especially as long as they weren't all physically invading my personal space...even then i never disrespect like that). I still smile and say, "no thank you", etc. and am still nice and casual with them because i see them as a human being still, albeit not an attractive one. The thing is, guys have been rejected plenty of times, so we know how it feels and i'd argue we have more empathy in that respect to not make others feel like that, so we aren't as savage when it comes to rejecting girls. Never once in my life have i seen a male reject a female by telling them or , it was usually always an avoidant and polite way of letting them down easily. And STILL, most men would be FLATTERED that even an ugly woman would approach them because men usually don't even get approached like that the same way that we have to approach females. Women on the other hand will happily get an ego rise out of giving you the face if you aren't attractive to her.

women on the other hand will disrespect you and call you a "Creep", castrate them socially, even file lawsuits against non-attractive men and literally ruin their lives for approaching them. it's straight up NOT THE SAME consequences for being unattractive as a male compared to a female. (yes, i know there is more to attractiveness than physical traits, but the consequences still are worse for men socially and legally for being non-attractive).

 

[Wiseborn]

I mean I can understand that resentment but that’s life. There’s always gonna be somebody out there better than u in something. Just get in where u fit in and KIM. I’m pretty sure Normani gets privileges that the average chick could NEVER get away with.
Hell Lisa Bonet got two of the world’s most attractive men acting like BFFs.

Erykah Badu got Andre3000, Common...damn near any dikk she wants.
Some chicks got entire harems of fine ass men and they treat em all like pure shyt.

Some people just got the juice.

That's the thing though, I think you said nikkas sent you pics and you said they weren't really ugly. If a nikka is a legit genetic freak those dudes don't complain. Stephen Hawking didn't complain. But you can't be an OK looking nikka and be broke and have no swag/mouthpiece/confidence/game

Lisa in her prime was fine she's decent as hell now she's better looking to me than her daughter. Erykah even though I love her music is OK to me she got better when she got all that ass, but again that OK face zero breasticles and being skinny (and finding out that she's crazy) I'm not sure what made nikkas run to wife her. I never heard a good reason for nikkas to lose their minds over her like that.

Look at Common he's like the woke Drake he charges fine ass women like nothing yet the nikka simped out heavy for Erykah.

That's the issue you could be an OK looking girl but if you have the "juice" you could be in there like swim wear while a similar looking nikka needs to bring way more to the table than a chick does.

 

[Ahadi]

The Coli told me it was about having a mouth piece

No such thing lol. Looks are everything. Followed by clout, then money/resources.

 

[Wiseborn]

Yep and there’s all of these factors too when it comes to the creepy stuff. It can quickly become more than just a “I’m not attracted to the dude” situation b/c of biological vulnerability.

Yeah the fear factor is really something that's not gonna change.

 

[Contrefaire]

This shyt is old as fukk and breh got clowned by his own people in the thread.

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

"I wanna cum on your face and make you my girlfriend"

*low self esteem jawn*

 

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It's a different world today than it was in the past. A lot of nikkas over 30 dont understand how much online dating has changed the game.

Womens expectations now are higher than ever. It used to be "he comes from a good family, hes got good manners and is a generous person." That used to be enough. Now its "how tall is he? Is he flabby and sick looking? Is he making more money than me? Is he the type of dude other women would want?"

My online dating prospects changed drastically because I put on some muscle and found a better barbershop. I wish things werent that way and women will actually choose based on reading your profile but facts are facts. A well balanced personality and humor are bonuses, not requirements now to spark attraction.

Girls I would've never thought would be freaks ready to bust it open for me barely knowing me because I wear a t shirt on the third date. shyt is wild and it is what it is. Confidence is a part of it, but people always fail to mention that confidence comes from something.

Putting in time in the gym? Confidence
Grind real hard and starting a business? Confidence

Telling nigas to be confident if they're not working towards anything is like telling someone who is losing a fight "hey just hit him and whoop his ass" they ain't trying to hear that.

OR you guys problem is you focus on online dating too much.........most of these girls are easy as hell in person if you are worth a damn........do yall even call girls on the phone anymore?

and truth be told again none of this is that serious there is always going to be a girl out there who's p*ssy magically locks with your dikk, once you're fukking with that you won't care about all this extra shyt..........you guys are overthinking it way too much

 

[LocSavage]

The key here I take outta it is to be attractive in your photos to signify status of being confident and through yo conversation dominance will lead open doors to women trying to quarantine and chill. Post is genius!

Yup, you know I took notes and going to bump it up a notch. Not bad TheColi, Not bad at all. . . .

 

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All Facts but again there's the gaslighting that women aren't like this. Take the example of a nikka cheating on his girl. The girl says How can you do this? Like it's impossible for her to have done it to you. Like she hasn't done this to other nikkas.

If you said to dudes Everyone is as loyal as their options

That might stop the massive shock when they find out that their girl got flewed out by some rapper.

But if dudes internalized that society would collapse..

It's damned if you do and damned if you don't situation. The best answer is for an ugly guy to self improve as much as possible gain as many resources as possible and wife the nastiest most stomp down hoe he could find. If he does that both walk in with both eyes open. Dude loses his bag she's gone, but on the other hand not too many handsome gang nikkas are knocking down the door to wife up a known hoe.

My problem with all of this is that people size themselves up based on false realities.

I’ve seen pictures of average chicks straight ROASTED online. You’d think they were the ugliest bytches in the universe. I’ve seen pics of dudes who look just fine getting TRASHED.

So the takeaway is that average people aren’t good enough. Which is stupid. But that’s what happens when u have a society plugged into social media.
There’s legit shyt u miss in human interaction with ACTUAL human beings that can’t be quantified on a 1-10 scale when it comes to somebody’s pictures online.

Personally, I think internet access, media and entertainment tv should be banned for a year and people should be forced to interact with the opposite sex.

None of this shyt would even be an issue. People just acting up b:c the internet shows them what they think should be accessible to them.

 

[Wiseborn]

OR you guys problem is you focus on online dating too much.........most of these girls are easy as hell in person if you are worth a damn........do yall even call girls on the phone anymore?

and truth be told again none of this is that serious there is always going to be a girl out there who's p*ssy magically locks with your dikk, once you're fukking with that you won't care about all this extra shyt..........you guys are overthinking it way too much

No I'd be surprised at a young nikka not in college meeting chicks like that, If you're Gen Z cat your whole life is on the 'Gram.

I'm Gen X and I remember teenage clubs that shyt doesn't exist now, I mean there's the mall but this anti street harrassment shyt fukks up young nikkas opportunity to learn game and how to handle rejection. shyt you don't even get to learn when I chick was hollering at you.

 

[Ahadi]

i got off that shyt cause I kept seeing the same hoes, but I would post up only travel pics (Me at infinity pools, lagoons, Underwater caves, etc) & eat.

They would look at my photos like they saw gold.