why is denying your biological urge to fukk commendable? he doesnt have to throw his life away to fukk.You sound like a kid.
Nothing wrong with cats who are true and really trying to live by the book ( that so many people claim to be). I commend him for being real ( which so many people claim to be) and not letting sex consume his life.
it would be one thing if he was dating some christian abstitant girl, not being able to maintain a relationship for a reason like this is not good or normal