okay since no one else is going to fukking say it.
Black women are conditioned to be the most insecure race of women in western society.
They also have the least amount of flexibility in dating outside their race....alot of other races of men, don't view black women as "desirable". They typically have to be stand outs, mixed, or special cases. Otherwise most other races of men think they are above dating a black girl. Or won't date the "average black girl".
black women are also conditioned to have a latent inferiority complex towards other races of women because of this. especially white.
Because of this, they are far more sensitive to black men dating out. That's their main, sometimes only, dating pool. In a sense they depend on us; so when we go out...it's like a betrayal to them, or an attack on their...value.
this insecurity, and also just being...women, leads to a manifestation of this lopsided behavior.