this new social media/simp era may have destroyed the relationship between men and women

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Honestly, if you message dime piece instagram models who get dozens of compliments just like yours for every picture... you're really expecting a response? :heh:

I'm an average chick who doesn't have any social media accounts and if anything, that only makes it harder for me to meet guys. I don't even care though, I'd really rather meet people in person than scout facebook profiles after a guy. :yeshrug:
 

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If your a "regular dude" who isn't flashy, you're invisible in this era. It's sad because a lot of good dudes are saying "fukk it" and grinding to either leave the country and find happiness elsewhere, or just choosing to fukk random broads and giving up on marriage (get married brehs.)

Eventually it has to pull back. It's way too superficial. Women want a guy that looks like Idris Elba with the bank account of Kobe Bryant-- and no hoes on his IG lol.
 

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If your a "regular dude" who isn't flashy, you're invisible in this era. It's sad because a lot of good dudes are saying "fukk it" and grinding to either leave the country and find happiness elsewhere, or just choosing to fukk random broads and giving up on marriage (get married brehs.)

Eventually it has to pull back. It's way too superficial. Women want a guy that looks like Idris Elba with the bank account of Kobe Bryant-- and no hoes on his IG lol.

:deadmanny:

women want the Tupac in a business suit with the bank account of P. Diddy :heh:

Nah, these bytches who are bad are broke as fukk because there are too many fine women out there and not enough money.
 

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If your a "regular dude" who isn't flashy, you're invisible in this era. It's sad because a lot of good dudes are saying "fukk it" and grinding to either leave the country and find happiness elsewhere, or just choosing to fukk random broads and giving up on marriage (get married brehs.)

Eventually it has to pull back. It's way too superficial. Women want a guy that looks like Idris Elba with the bank account of Kobe Bryant-- and no hoes on his IG lol.
A lot of nikkas in this era are trying to punch above their weight class too.
 

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I dunno, maybe I'm old school, but messaging a random broad out of the blue seems unnatural to me. Ideally, an introduction in person so she can bask in my ambiance :ahh:


exactly, i think alot of nikkas just work hard to seem cooler on the internet than they are irl, so to them gettin at a chick online in the move :mjlol: none of that shyt matters if you dont have the irl aura to match tho




but lets not get it twisted back in the early 00's-05 myspace's search function was definitely the wave :mjpls:
 

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Honestly, if you message dime piece instagram models who get dozens of compliments just like yours for every picture... you're really expecting a response? :heh:

I'm an average chick who doesn't have any social media accounts and if anything, that only makes it harder for me to meet guys. I don't even care though, I'd really rather meet people in person than scout facebook profiles after a guy. :yeshrug:
So where do you meet guys?
 

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@innocentdevil is like this breh. She's not about any type of action.
 

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So where do you meet guys?

College campus, shopping mall, gym (I need to start going again :to:), friends of friends at group hang outs... the usual.

I mean, I don't get half a dozen guys texting me at all times but I don't want that kind of attention. And I really like meeting people in person, because then we start off as friendly acquaintances and I can decide whether to show interest in going out after I know what sort of person they are.

On facebook, people start putting on moves before they even meet each other in person... Idk, I don't like guys spitting game at me straight off. I feel like I'm not getting to know them, I'm getting to know their hunting mode. I'd rather get a feel for how a guy acts normally, just as acquaintances, to decide if I like him or not.
 

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College campus, shopping mall, gym (I need to start going again :to:), friends of friends at group hang outs... the usual.

I mean, I don't get half a dozen guys texting me at all times but I don't want that kind of attention. And I really like meeting people in person, because then we start off as friendly acquaintances and I can decide whether to show interest in going out after I know what sort of person they are.

On facebook, people start putting on moves before they even meet each other in person... Idk, I don't like guys spitting game at me straight off. I feel like I'm not getting to know them, I'm getting to know their hunting mode. I'd rather get a feel for how a guy acts normally, just as acquaintances, to decide if I like him or not.
So the bolded is just for online or those that apply to whenever?
 

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It's not as bad as some of y'all are making it out to be. Women, in general, are more approachable when they're by themselves. It's crazy because if actually see alot of the dudes some of these instagram queens date, they're usually regular ass nikkas and I doubt they meet them through PM's and thirst contest in the comments :usure:. Just avoid approaching them with their friends or in places with a bunch of hyena ass nikkas lurk because they encourage a$$hole-ish behavior :wtb:


Your instagram goddesses are gettin' scooped up at the grocery store, school and the waiting rooms at the dentist by Jason from accounting, brehs :heh:. And let's be real here : If a chick is not attracted to you, you prolly won't get as much as a sheepish, "Well, I got to go now, bye" :comeon:
 

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So the bolded is just for online or those that apply to whenever?

I guess wherever, pick up lines usually have me going more :heh: than :shaq:

Of course if a guy comes onto me, I'll take note and be all :whoo: if I'm feeling him, but I don't like rushing things. I guess I'm an exception though, most girls are a lot more open from the get go :yeshrug:
 

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If your a "regular dude" who isn't flashy, you're invisible in this era. It's sad because a lot of good dudes are saying "fukk it" and grinding to either leave the country and find happiness elsewhere, or just choosing to fukk random broads and giving up on marriage (get married brehs.)

Eventually it has to pull back. It's way too superficial. Women want a guy that looks like Idris Elba with the bank account of Kobe Bryant-- and no hoes on his IG lol.

We're in the Instagram Era. The Myspace Era was 6 years ago. I don't remember girls being stuck up wannabe celebrities back then :patrice:
 

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women want the Tupac in a business suit with the bank account of P. Diddy :heh:

Nah, these bytches who are bad are broke as fukk because there are too many fine women out there and not enough money.

I mean, its just the entitlement these women have now :wow: I was in that Paul George thread yesterday and @Ghostface Trillah dropped a story about the stripper he got pregnant. Said before she met PG, she was chasing ballers/rappers/athletes for years, talkin about she didn't want no broke loser's baby :scusthov: meanwhile she was prolly living in a dingy apartment with cheap furniture.

A lot of nikkas in this era are trying to punch above their weight class too.

That's true too. Nikkas be lookin like Young Chop wondering why the dime bishes don't want them :to:
 
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