Ultimately they are coming from a good place, they want to see you do well. My mom bothers me about going to church all the time, I'll listen to her talk and continue to do me. Sometimes also they just want to talk, old people love doing that. You know how many random old people I've had conversations with? Sometimes they thank me and tell me how their grandkids never listen to them and tell me how much they appreciate me taking the time out to do so. I'm not gonna lie I didn't actually read what you wrote so what I'm saying might not have anything to do with what ur saying.