This is the epitome of the type of wife i want (physically)

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I'd say 95% of the women I grew up around in my family were yellow so that shyt just doesn't seem all that to me like people make it.
 
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What about light skinned dudes that look good (n/h), not super light skinned, and in shape?

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this is too light skin. will smith/ ll cool j color and darker.
 

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Misty Copeland
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She's one of the best at what she does and has a passion for it. Time will not ruin her like some of the other women posted here. When you're talking about the physical aspect of your future wife, you have to take things such as weight gain over time into consideration. This woman is a dancer, atheleticism and flexibility are key aspects of her lifestyle. At worst she'll turn out to gain a few extra pounds and pass for what people commonly consider thick, at best she'll stay more or less the same.

That--gentlemen, is wife status.
 

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i have been with more redbone, light skin women

but honestly like dark skin more

i actually had a dark skin female say she want her kids to be lighter than her so she only date light dudes


:dead: Yeah, I've heard that one before. Folks have been conditioned to hate the skin they're in. :wow:
 

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your good. even though darker skin is my preference i wont reject a fine ass light skin guy if i happen to run into one. what skin tone you prefer?

Darker skinned women. I won't mind dating a light skinned chick as long as she ain't gassed up or disrespectful.
 

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Not all thick women blow up. Not all slim women just get thick in the right places.

Key thing is mentality. If a woman cares about her body/health, likes to workout and/or active into her mid to 20's plus, then more than likely they will continue.

My experience has been it starts after high school for some and college for others. Those who are going to blow up (thick or skinny) do because they were never that active in the first place and their metabolism has slowed down.
This. I don't have that metabolism, and lost a lot of weight- 25lbs @ 19yrs- so I am VERY conscious of the calories I consume and being in the gym on the regular.

I have friends my age that had that high metabolism when we were younger, and never needed to work. Now they are the big ones, and I'm just living what's normal to me now. :win:
 

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You might be on to something
I'm looking at the patterns from experience too... :usure:

:laugh: I guess it's the opposites attract thing. True enough, we are all more attracted to certain characteristics, but if anyone rejects you because of the color of your skin, they just didn't like you. I personally have had more relationships with lighter women, so I understand I subconsciously gravitate towards those types, but I've never in my life contemplated giving an attractive female the :camby: because she had a dark complexion. In fact, one of coolest chicks I've fooled around and kicked it with was dark skin, but ol' girl could cook, handle her business in the bedroom, and pick you up when you're going through some shyt. If she wasn't bat shyt crazy, I would have locked her down. :wow: If you look good, you look good. Folks don't even care about arbitrary nonsense like height and skin complexion when they're actually attracted to you.
You probably should have breh. Females crazy no matter what it seems
 

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This. I don't have that metabolism, and lost a lot of weight- 25lbs @ 19yrs- so I am VERY conscious of the calories I consume and being in the gym on the regular.

I have friends my age that had that high metabolism when we were younger, and never needed to work. Now they are the big ones, and I'm just living what's normal to me now. :win:
Exactly. My friends that have been active, workout and try to eat healthy. My friends that are lazy don't got/stay big. They keep talking about working out, but it never happens.

People really need to stop generalizing, but is the Coli so.
 

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Exactly. My friends that have been active, workout and try to eat healthy. My friends that are lazy don't got/stay big. They keep talking about working out, but it never happens.

People really need to stop generalizing, but is the Coli so.
so you saying i can wife you up and you would maintain your thickness and not get fat :lupe:
 

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Exactly. My friends that have been active, workout and try to eat healthy. My friends that are lazy don't got/stay big. They keep talking about working out, but it never happens.

People really need to stop generalizing, but is the Coli so.
:mindblown: This frustrates me beyond belief. I work with two girls closely. One, we hit the gym together after work (don't work out together, but it's a little motivating to know someone is going). We don't talk about it, we don't talk about diet (but we both eat healthy for lunch, bringing our own food- protein and veggies). The other girl is pretty large. She is ALWAYS talking about her new diet plan. Talking about how she's going to come to the gym with us starting Monday. It's extra annoying because she never does it.
 
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