cornballs think they gotta be extra because they feel like they're not enough for her. if you convey to her that you're not enough she will feel the same and would feel ashamed to allow you to be intimate enough to be inside her. No girl wants a loser to put his penis inside her vagina because what would that say about her and her puss? even worst, what if he gets her pregnant? then they would have loser children together.
I'm the most boring guy when i interact with girls. I'll make jokes but never to entertain them. more to entertain myself and to see if she can add to the jokes (which helps creating a bond in her head). if i want to go out I'll invite her out for some simple basic shyt to show her that I'm enough, i don't need special effects. it doesn't matter how cute or average she is, whether she's a 6 or a 9 i treat them all like 7s. puss is easy to get a lot of times but dudes like the vid shows are outsmarting themselves out of the puss trying to be too smooth or too romantic.
The bottom line is simple - if the girl is attracted to u,
most of what u say/do wont matter. Unless u say dumb shyt of course.
Men really out here thinking they got game. Its mostly for ego. Really none of that shyt matters to them unless they find u
attractive (or wanna fukk u).
So u're right. But women are tricky & since we, myself included, always think with our dikks we'll do anything to get ours or
not ruining us from getting it. Whether its playin the waiting game, doin gimmicks like this etc.