They way they respond when you're going thru hard times. Not just possessing sympathy and empathy, but do they help sooth you and see you thru it? Do they listen and try to get a real good picture of what you're going thru? Do they try to help solve the issue? Or does she tell you it aint' that bad, or you should move on, so she can talk to you about work and shopping for hours?
Problem is, you can date a person for months and everybody is great and you not see this come. Someone is sick close to you and they act like it's nothing and can't put their pity grievances with you on hold.
I actually threw this chick in the bushes yesterday, she's trying to be my man, but she's done now. I've been stressing these cert that my company has been demanding me to get or I'll be fired most likely. They finally sent a few of us to a bootcamp this past weekend. Horrible class. I work nightshift, this class is all day and with a minumim of 5 hours of homework and studying. I was up to 4am taking studying folks. I finally past the test yesterday. Afterwards, I still felt sick, like I was about to throw up. Sleep deprived and stressed. I called her to tell her everything. 1st off she loves to talk and talk. Usually I just hold the phone and listen, I'm not the phone type really. So finally I feel like venting and she just tries get me to drop it and move on, so she can tell me about shyt at her job and what she's going to bye next. I couldn't take it no more. I just told her off and hungup. I was tired of smashing and hearing her mouth anyway.
Problem is, you can date a person for months and everybody is great and you not see this come. Someone is sick close to you and they act like it's nothing and can't put their pity grievances with you on hold.
I actually threw this chick in the bushes yesterday, she's trying to be my man, but she's done now. I've been stressing these cert that my company has been demanding me to get or I'll be fired most likely. They finally sent a few of us to a bootcamp this past weekend. Horrible class. I work nightshift, this class is all day and with a minumim of 5 hours of homework and studying. I was up to 4am taking studying folks. I finally past the test yesterday. Afterwards, I still felt sick, like I was about to throw up. Sleep deprived and stressed. I called her to tell her everything. 1st off she loves to talk and talk. Usually I just hold the phone and listen, I'm not the phone type really. So finally I feel like venting and she just tries get me to drop it and move on, so she can tell me about shyt at her job and what she's going to bye next. I couldn't take it no more. I just told her off and hungup. I was tired of smashing and hearing her mouth anyway.
