These the kinda nikkas we got posting here now?

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That’s easier said than done. There is not organization in the hood. You’re comparing organized crime to nikkas killing and slanging for their next meal. shyt ain’t right, but what salution do you have for them? They can’t afford to just stop or leave

it honestly has to start from within. its 2018, we really need to stop making these kinds of excuses for nikkas who are willing c00ns.
as black men who have all been in helpless situations at one point or another. you gotta do what you gotta do. I joined the military, got some certs, and now I'm 24 making 70k. its all possible, you just need to get on the grind.
 
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it honestly has to start from within. its 2018, we really need to stop making these kinds of excuses for nikkas who are willing c00ns.
as black men who have all been in helpless situations at one point or another. you gotta do what you gotta do. I joined the military, got some certs, and now I'm 24 making 70k. its all possible, you just need to get on the grind.
But you also probably had somewhat of a support system behind you. If you have negativity fueling each other like a toxic pit, what is the salution there? Sometimes a broken clock is right but the clock is still broken. That whole “I did it, why can’t they?” Mentality doesn’t work on brainwashed nikkas. We can all simply stop doing crime and shyt, but life doesn’t work like that. You cant compare something someone does to live to something someone does for fun.
 

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I agree with your latter statement, but it did sound like you were cosigning the fukkery. nikkas don't HAVE to commit crime within their own community to survive. be like the jews and Italians and do that shyt to other groups at least.

What I was pointing out is the cognitive dissonance. What some of these black men do is okay because nikkas can relate to it. They got to do what they got to do to “survive”. It’s relatable so they don’t apply the same standard of “pride and morals”. However, standards are somehow back in play with things that are foreign to them.

It’s like cacs who want to apply “standards” and get rid of affirmative action for black people yet enjoy the benefit of legacy admissions.

Just want us to be thorough about how we apply shyt.
 
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What I was pointing out is the cognitive dissonance. What some of these black men do is okay because nikkas can relate to it. They got to do what they got to do to “survive”. It’s relatable so they don’t apply the same standard of “pride and morals”. However, standards are somehow back in play with things that are foreign to them.

It’s like cacs who want to apply “standards” and get rid of affirmative action for black people yet enjoy the benefit of legacy admissions.

Just want us to be thorough about how we apply shyt.
I don’t recall saying it was relatable or saying it was right:why:

I swear this nikka just makes up whatever he wants to prove his point. You still haven’t pointed to me where I condoned it:jbhmm:

Surviving in a situation you were forced into at birth VS some nikka trying to get off is the same because?????

But you won’t answer this tho :heh:
 

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Surviving in a situation your were forced into at birth VS some nikka trying to get off is the same because?????

Why have you rationalized in your head that it's different?

You didn't have to explicitly say anything. It was implied with the sympathetic way you explained away why it's "different".

You're essentially telling me to view the one situation with more nuance, which I would agree with you, but you don't want to take a nuanced view of sexual attraction and arousal and the myriad of things that turn people on. You don't know what brehs situation is that makes him attracted to shyt like that. You have women that were raped in childhood but get off to be choked and roughed up. Why would a woman get off to that having been through a traumatic experience like that. It makes her nut so she can't help it. That's the way arousal works, unfortunately.

What I'm saying is be even handed.
 
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Why have you rationalized in your head that it's different?

You didn't have to explicitly say anything. It was implied with the sympathetic way you explained away why it's "different".

You're essentially telling me to view the one situation with more nuance, which I would agree with you, but you don't want to take a nuanced view of sexual attraction and arousal and the myriad of things that turn people on. You don't know what brehs situation is that makes him attracted to shyt like that. You have women that were raped in childhood but get off to be choked and roughed up. Why would a woman get off to that having been through a traumatic experience like that. It makes her nut so she can't help it. That's the way arousal works, unfortunately.

What I'm saying is be even handed.
If that was the case than I would advise them to get Help, but I’m not gonna sit here and give it a pass. Just like if he made a thread on how to sell dope, I’d call him a crackhead and shame him as well.

But still, these things don’t equal up. Some female could have been abused and now gets off to fukked up shyt, but getting off and trying to literally survive is not equal. She doesn’t need to cum to survive. That man can be poor and trapped in the hood with no way to get out but t sell drugs. shyt isn’t right but there’s n other way. Especially if you grow up in that cloud of negativity. Most likely they already have a criminal record because that kind of behavior doesn’t start when you’re older, so they couldn’t get a good job if they wanted too.

But to come to a forum to which I assumed are very, I don’t like the term “woke” but, very highly aware black men, and to ask for shyt like that? Nah. That’s just not acceptable.
 

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If that was the case than I would advise them to get Help, but I’m not gonna sit here and give it a pass. Just like if he made a thread on how to sell dope, I’d call him a crackhead and shame him as well.

But still, these things don’t equal up. Some female could have been abused and now gets off to fukked up shyt, but getting off and trying to literally survive is not equal. She doesn’t need to cum to survive. That man can be poor and trapped in the hood with no way to get out but t sell drugs. shyt isn’t right but there’s n other way. Especially if you grow up in that cloud of negativity. Most likely they already have a criminal record because that kind of behavior doesn’t start when you’re older, so they couldn’t get a good job if they wanted too.

But to come to a forum to which I assumed are very, I don’t like the term “woke” but, very highly aware black men, and to ask for shyt like that? Nah. That’s just not acceptable.

Fair enough and I agree.....

But I don't think you should have used "pride" and "morals" as the basis of your argument. It has nothing to do with sexual arousal.

And taking a more nuanced approach like you've done with the other situation, I think you should have advise the breh to seek help instead of castigating him. I do think there is an underlying issue surrounding that type of sexual kink. But as an adult, who understands that things like arousal and attraction are intrinsic, I'm not going to clown him because of it.
 
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Fair enough and I agree.....

But I don't think you should have used "pride" and "morals" as the basis of your argument. It has nothing to do with sexual arousal.

And taking a more nuanced approach like you've done with the other situation, I think you should have advise the breh to seek help instead of castigating him. I do think there is an underlying issue surrounding that type of sexual kink. But as an adult, who understands that things like arousal and attraction are intrinsic, I'm not going to clown him because of it.
You may be right. But as I said, I assumed that everyone here was “aware”. So I hold people here to a higher standard than the average internet Dude. If this was Reddit or somewhere else, I wouldn’t have given this a second thought. I would have frowned and kept scrolling. It’s also why the thread was named “This the type of nikkas we have posting here now”. Instead of something like “look at this weird nikkas fetish”. It was mostly appalling that he’d be on this website of all places asking for something like that.
 
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