These girls mayne...and the drama

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it's principalities involved with this.

give them an inch, they'll take a mile. you have to make her understand that this type of stuff is simply unacceptable.
 

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Research finds women feel happy when their husband or partner is upset - Telegraph

The detailed study found that wives or girlfriends were pleased when their partner showed emotion because they believed it demonstrated a healthy relationship.
The survey, carried out by Harvard Medical School, also found that when men realised their wife was angry, the women reported being happier, although the men were not.
It revealed women most likely enjoyed spotting when their partner was dissatisfied because it showed his strong “engagement” or “investment” in their time together.
Dr Shiri Cohen, the study’s lead author, said: “It could be that for women, seeing that their male partner is upset reflects some degree of the man's investment and emotional engagement in the relationship, even during difficult times.
“This is consistent with what is known about the dissatisfaction women often experience when their male partner becomes emotionally withdrawn and disengaged in response to conflict.”
 

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As a married man, let me say this:

NIP THIS IN THE BUD. KILL IT DEAD.

And don't worry about upsetting her fam or ya girl's feelings. Cuz when it comes to in-laws and fam, when they get comfortable they can overstep their bounds.

1) Your girl wrong for not checking with you.
2) Your girl wrong for not standing up to her mom. I understand it's her mom, but ya girl is grown.

Now, here is how you play it when they come visit. Keep your regular schedule, Don't take off from work to kick it with them, let your girl deal with that headache. Don't worry about cleaning up the crib all special and filling the fridge for your guests, let your girl deal with it.

Since she made that unilateral decision, let her deal with all the work and bullshyt involved. You just sit back like :win: til they leave.

Bet you she wont do shyt like that again. :heh:
 

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Research finds women feel happy when their husband or partner is upset - Telegraph

The detailed study found that wives or girlfriends were pleased when their partner showed emotion because they believed it demonstrated a healthy relationship.
The survey, carried out by Harvard Medical School, also found that when men realised their wife was angry, the women reported being happier, although the men were not.
It revealed women most likely enjoyed spotting when their partner was dissatisfied because it showed his strong “engagement” or “investment” in their time together.
Dr Shiri Cohen, the study’s lead author, said: “It could be that for women, seeing that their male partner is upset reflects some degree of the man's investment and emotional engagement in the relationship, even during difficult times.
“This is consistent with what is known about the dissatisfaction women often experience when their male partner becomes emotionally withdrawn and disengaged in response to conflict.”


the women surveyed for this study are fukking miserable...
 

Hussein Fonzarelli

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Update!

So, after my girl postponed their visit 2 days after my birthday, the guests came, monday afternoon. Whoop dee doo! Age difference really shows in situations like these. Fun times.

How are you? :ld:
AND HOW ARE YOU :leon:
I tell ya, this recession :birdman:
Yup, it's tough out there :flabbynsick:
Sure it's hot today :beli:
Yeah, really hot, not a drop of rain in sight :what:
What can you do! :ohlawd:
Yup! :wow:

:shaq2:

So I plow thru those talks and today I get the happy news - tomorrow I got day off from work.

Then, I get EVEN better news. They ain't packin up today like I thought (first thing I've heard on this matter was "they are stayin overnight")...

They ain't packin tomorrow morning (I had that as Plan B)

They packin..............................................Thursday.














:dead:
 

Hussein Fonzarelli

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shyts now downright bizarre...my girl is workin afternoon so im all alone with the Crew here, but I aint talkin shyt, Im keepin it movin, putin on the puter all day not givin a fukk

Now they tryina be silent and discretely use the kitchen, discretely pour drink, discretely go to the balcony. shyts annoying.

:wow:

I wanna let one rip but I cant. I gotta contain myself. I cant go shirtless like I usually do...I cant do shyt. And tomorrow...oh man...free from work and they here.

:to:

But I planned the revenge. In about one month time, Imma call up her mom and say

"oh...by the way, my cousin and her muslim boyfriend told me something bout how they wanna come down around your way, some vacation shyt, they get moving tomorrow ... but they wont stay long or nothing, only 3 days".

:myman:

Is that legit, am I doing it right?
 

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I've learned, if you're in a relationship with a woman, theres always gonna be one family member who causes headaches in some form or fashion, whether it be inviting themselves over often or just plain ol meddling in your relationship. Just the way it is. Best case scenario, they're out of town and you don't gotta deal with it on the regular.

But yea, bytches be crazy.
 

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44 bricks...acre shaker
meet a bytch..

date her..

borrow her car

pick up a attractive female relative, drive to a place u kno her cacklin as friends will be...

be seen

if the broad u dating magically pops up on some cheaters shyt chunk her the duece..

if she calls u on that bullshyt chunk her the duece..
 
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