I think the title is saying something different than the op. Those people are accepting they're below average. Otherwise they'd read a book or lose weight.
So you want people to not have confidence in how they look or how they think.
Y'all nikkas are always bytching about something smh.
Didn't you make a thread about how to approach a woman, and youre like 40
but to be on topic, what is considerd a winner/loser is purely subjective in the western context
Another way to illustrate my premise
The idea that each individual is royalty.
Whassup King. Whassup Queen.
The very idea of a monarch includes subjects. A kingdom. Taxes being collected. Armies to defend it. Alot of shyt.
It's fine to be confident but what's wrong with having rooks and knights and shyt. A good king with 1000 loyal knights.
But nobody wanna be the soldier. Everybody wanna be the general. 1000 generals and no soldiers can't get nowhere.