there really needs to be a cure for baby fever (besides the obvious)
- Thread starter Regine Hunter
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That's exactly how I feel. I don't WANT to but at least it's an option, right? Life is all about having options.
You'll find someone, you got your stuff together. Even if you just wanted a man JUST for that reason I can't see them having a problem with that, you not just some random bummy chick trying to trap or lock some man down. You got you stuff together better than most men from the looks of things.
Me on the other hand...
Seems way to dangerous to try and have a kid with a "random" woman.
I am waiting for my friends who are in the same state *cough* @Elle Driver *cough* To have babies to I can babysit.
I wouldn't call it baby fever yet, I'm just really into them right now lol.
I wouldn't call it baby fever yet, I'm just really into them right now lol.
Are you saying you don't have your shyt together?You'll find someone, you got your stuff together. Even if you just wanted a man JUST for that reason I can't see them having a problem with that, you not just some random bummy chick trying to trap or lock some man down. You got you stuff together better than most men from the looks of things.
Me on the other hand...
Seems way to dangerous to try and have a kid with a "random" woman.
Elle Driver
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Yeah spend an hour with mines you'll be over it. Matter fact, spend 10 minutes.
I was more talking about trying to find a woman that I can trust to have my kid if I'm not tied down by then.
But I dont have my stuff all the way together yet either, and beofre I bring a child into this world I want too. I know alot of people can yolo kids...I'm just not one of those people.
I'm walking the same path as you OG. I'm extremely young (20-23). I don't want to bring ANY child into this world until I get my shyt together and live life to the fullest. Not only that but the women plays an important part. Is she kind hearted, loves me for me, selfless, healthy, etc. I'm not expecting her to be perfect because I'm not perfect.
Trust me I baby sit my little sister and cousins and it's not easy.
Ohhh ok. I get it now. Yeah, its definitely more difficult for men that want children because you HAVE to find a trustworthy woman. I agree with not "yoloing" kids too but at the same time, if you have a solid plan to position yourself AND you find a woman worth having a kid with, I don't think you should wait until your plan is completely in place if that makes sense. It's also different for men because you don't really have an age restriction on when you can have children. There is more a desperation, for lack of a better term, when it comes to women, aging and children. Like "hurry up before your ovaries dry up"
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I've never felt it. 
Being in the presence of small children irritates me completely, so you could try that.
Being in the presence of small children irritates me completely, so you could try that.