Would you say your new perspective is to not be a crash dummy for someone who may not have the same energy for you?
Although being told not to, I’ve seen women stand up for their man verbally. Raising hell and demanding answers for their boyfriend/husband. Russell Westbrook’s wife vs Skip Bayless is a perfect example.
Of course every man wants their woman to do the same for them in those situations. Then again, maybe he wouldn't, if he knows it could land her in jail, or worst. But most of the time, that test never comes for the woman, because it's unlikely a woman gonna rub a mans ass who she don't know, while his woman is nearby, if at all. So this situation wouldn't quite apply to Russell Westbrook’s wife vs Skip Bayless.
I understand what you're asking though. But the problem with our women is, if she has your back like that, she's either a hood-rat, or she's too out of order to be your woman, or both. Hard to find one with the right balance.