I concur....
A lot of these dudes are scared to be true leaders ...
Heavy is the head that wears the crown.
This is a way more nuanced conversation..
Than the bolded statement..
If you really trying to keep it 100..
Every time brehs step up for the challenge..
Destroy the patriarchy and black male privilege..
You are just a *insert phobe*
Whatever else vile acronyms..
When we use our voices..
On certain subjects..
Ie J.Cole
And the undermine nikkas like Chance the Rapper..
When brehs try to show a minuscule of vulnerability..
He too soft girl..
You can’t ask for strong men and leadership..
Then turn around and lambaste the same men into submission..
When we don’t agree with you..
Or..
Call out women to be accountable..
Call out these disease minded women that are the most vocal of your gender..
This is a two way road..
If you want men to stand and straighten out our toxicity..
It’s time for women to do the same thing..
Also look at how the courts treat a dude after said divorce..
I was lucky to have a ex wife..
Not on that bullshyt..
Not so many are..
Until both sides have real honesty..
The gender chasm/GMB will always exist..
Stop having one sided arguments like women ain’t out here on fukkery..