The Stigma, Pressure, & Objectification of Black Male Sexuality

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Definitely a worthwhile topic and it's good that we are starting to dig in to the fact that men, particularly Black men, are human beings.
For too long we have been boxed into being regarded as only four things: Children, lovers, providers, and protectors.
But ol boy's approach is hella dry and academic. Then he's coming in on that gay-friendly male feminist slant.
There need to be a space between that and the red pill stuff where we can address issues of manhood.

Women always laugh when I mention my many experiences with sexual harassment in the workplace.
By the time I get through telling the stories, they're like "OMG,, that's horrible!"

 

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I think topic of this nature are worth discussing given that a huge pillar of Black male youtube is Red Pill trash.

And they fall into the tropes that objectify us. How many black men are actually having honest discussions and really unpacking on this subject? It maybe a few but most of us aren't.

 

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Definitely a worthwhile topic and it's good that we are starting to dig in to the fact that men, particularly Black men, are human beings.
For too long we have been boxed into being regarded as only four things: Children, lovers, providers, and protectors.
But ol boy's approach is hella dry and academic. Then he's coming in on that gay-friendly male feminist slant.
There need to be a space between that and the red pill stuff where we can address issues of manhood.

Women always laugh when I mention my many experiences with sexual harassment in the workplace.
By the time I get through telling the stories, they're like "OMG,, that's horrible!"

What's the in between you are looking for? Dude seems pretty open minded to me. His point about DaBaby is something you see on this very site with other artists lol

 

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The poster that made the thread asking if this was a black site made me think how a lot of posters claim to care about black men but only seem to want to defend black male stereotypes like promiscuity or defend smart dumb nikkas putting their foot in their mouths publicly.
You never see those posters that fight tooth and nail to claim it's an attack on black men in those threads (sometimes it's warranted bc anti black men stuff is out there) but in threads about systemic black men issues like this that we all face to some degree - you don't see them anywhere.
It makes wonder if they are just being disingenuous and actually using black men as a cover for what they are actually arguing against, or they are agents trying to plant the seeds degeneracy, or they just don't see threads like this. It's really hard to say because this site got a lot of weirdos who are very contradictory


Also this thread ties into this topic

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/brehs-it-happened-i-was-just-sexually-assaulted.949018

 

[Ahadi]

The poster that made the thread asking if this was a black site made me think how a lot of posters claim to care about black men but only seem to want to defend black male stereotypes like promiscuity or defend smart dumb nikkas putting their foot in their mouths publicly.
You never see those posters that fight tooth and nail to claim it's an attack on black men in those threads (sometimes it's warranted bc anti black men stuff is out there) but in threads about systemic black men issues like this that we all face to some degree - you don't see them anywhere.
It makes wonder if they are just being disingenuous and actually using black men as a cover for what they are actually arguing against, or they are agents trying to plant the seeds degeneracy, or they just don't see threads like this. It's really hard to say because this site got a lot of weirdos who are very contradictory


Also this thread ties into this topic

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/brehs-it-happened-i-was-just-sexually-assaulted.949018

Nope. They enjoy the dysfunction, they prosper with dysfunction some even monetize with. They like seeing the stereotypes and the negativity, because it stems from jealousy of another black man.

 

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Nope. They enjoy the dysfunction, they prosper with dysfunction some even monetize with. They like seeing the stereotypes and the negativity, because it stems from jealousy of another black man.

I'm leaning towards that but it stemming from the jealousy of another black man is something I never thought about.