while i disagree with certain aspects of rivelino's ideology (mahomes & sneakers lmao) that's ok, just like anybody else i don't throw the baby out with the bath water. i 100% agree that being masculine and never deferential will have you winning to varying degrees with women. my pops has always ran the house as an undisputed leader, there was no 50/50 nothing which stood in stark contrast to other men we knew who were henpecked, harassed, and sometimes even embarrassed by their wives. my father never judged them, he would just look on casually but maybe at times with light bemusement. the way they even moved around their women was way different than my pops & i knew this probably around 13 or 14
body language is a HUGE part of it and then it seeps into other areas of the relationship. pop always had that bold, confident, strong body language like he was her parent at times. also when speaking, everything from my father to my mother is a light directive and not a question, but was so subtle he never came off as some sort of bully. never even had to raise his voice all too much. it was just what she was supposed to do & she would cooperate happily
to add on to rivelino with some real game here? NEVER dress like your bytch lol. nikka, NEVER. a real man should have his bytch wanting to throw on his oversized shirt & boxers in the crib while she cooks for you because it makes her feel sexy. smh @ nikkas playing cutesie with matching outfits. never do it. you should be her masculine leader & not her goddamn little buddy and confidant