the PS5 3D Pulse set looks nice, but they have the same or very similar ear pads to the Golds.
Personally, I've played NBA 2K and COD with no issues. All of my PS4 games are on a 1TB external, and will stay there.
I use Hyper X headsets, have owned/do own the following:
^^^^can wear for hours and have great sound
^^^ currently use these
For other accessories, I have the charging station, and the camera. I will get the extra storage when sony tells us what works, and i'll get a 4K monitor when they release one that supports HDMI 2.1. I'll never play on a TV again. if HyperX drops a new PS5 headset i'll get that too.