The OFFICIAL Green Flags When Dating Men Thread

[Ms.CuriousCat]

There's value in knowing what to avoid in people. It's arguably even more important to know what to look for. How will you know you have or have found a gem?

So think back to the one who got your attention. The one who got away, the one you admired from a far or if you're lucky, the one you're with.

What qualities make him worth it?

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Responsible, finishing assignments on time and meeting obligations.

Self-control, really keeps himself in check. Ironically you know that makes you want to ruffle his feathers or maybe I'm just childish.

 

[Poitier]

thread gone be a lil light on responses

 

[Critical Distance]

respects and love his parents/guardians
actively working towards his goals
polite to everyone
has a backbone to stand up to those that disrespect him and those close to him
clean in general
honest and and forthright about his intentions

 

[EARFQUAKE]

Encourages you

Sides with you and can still be objective

Respects women

Has family values and/or recognizes it

Giving

Friendly

Honest

 

[EARFQUAKE]

OP why aren't any of your threads featured?

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Calm. Is in control of his emotions.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

OP why aren't any of your threads featured?

I think when threads are featured it's about response rate. I've had featured threads and with those ones they got to 10+ pages in no time.

 

[ill_will82]

A positive spin thread. Nice.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Encourages you

Sides with you and can still be objective

Respects women

Has family values and/or recognizes it

Giving

Friendly

Honest

I have all those qualities and more
Fred

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

OP why aren't any of your threads featured?

Not enough controversy
Too much substance

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Responsible, finishing assignments on time and meeting obligations.

Self-control, really keeps himself in check. Ironically you know that makes you want to ruffle his feathers or maybe I'm just childish.

So you want him to be perfect
Y'all want everything perfect

But I won't troll you abayo ama let you cook

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

So you want him to be perfect
Y'all want everything perfect

But I won't troll you abayo ama let you cook

You don't have to worry, you're already perfect aboowe

 

[Raava]

When you first start talking. Not flaky like keeping plans and no long gaps of communication.

Actually trying to spend time with you outside of chillin at home.

Has goals and purpose.

Respectful.

Honest about his intentions.

Not too clingy, possessive.

Not lying for no reason.

Tries to really get to know you.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Actually trying to spend time with you outside of chillin at home.