update on this, this is as close to sports victories i'm ever gonna get tbh. I kinda acted aloof/annoyed with her for a bit and was like 'fukk it, I like this girl but I'm gonna scale it back.. (Even if I have no other prospects and am a fukkin loser) we get to talking last night.. she's like "this is so dumb" finally sends me something and I compliment her, just telling her the truth.
then she says, and i quote
"i dress like a hobo for this reason"(she never dresses with anything tight or short, always big ass shirts) . "i think its more enjoyable for myself/the guy i'm with when they finally see. like it's a compliment to me but its not something i openly flaunt or use to get a guy's attention bc i'm not a dumb bimbo" then i'm like "alright well you dont get to see my reactions since i'm not even in your state and we've been talking for a while so i dont see you like that obviously. said she liked my reaction and will do it more often. it's fine with me.
this girls body though, for a lookin white girl think it's worth putting the work in for whenever we happen to be in each others vicinity
and if you thikn i'm not gonna link after this tldr shyt
we all say we want a change and be happy but i think being comfortable while complaining is more important to us than actually doing anything.
buy that puppy btw, get one you can go outside with and will be enthusiastic all the time, I used to have a dog that made me happy, but since *cough* I don't have some cheap source of amusement/ happiness. Cause that's what pets are, it sounds stupid but they really help. and if you have nothing else going on, well you can concentrate on the pet and it will give you plenty to do
It's true, Arsenal and living in New York are examples of this. Never been one to compare myself to others, think we spoke on this years ago but you kinda get caught up and wonder if I am where I am supposed to be?
I don't want to live life to bytch but then I'm conflicted. You want to live on the beach but then you think of your career and achieving shyt.
we all say we want a change and be happy but i think being comfortable while complaining is more important to us than actually doing anything.
buy that puppy btw, get one you can go outside with and will be enthusiastic all the time, I used to have a dog that made me happy, but since *cough* I don't have some cheap source of amusement/ happiness. Cause that's what pets are, it sounds stupid but they really help. and if you have nothing else going on, well you can concentrate on the pet and it will give you plenty to do
Cheers bruv, that's what I dont want to be, talking about change and never acting. Luckily I have no real responsibilities so I have a chance to break out. Rather be happy and living a full life (travel, charity, carefree sex in 3rd world countries) then being comfortable and complaining. .
It was either a puppy or a good woman. The dog is cheaper. Haven't had one since I was kid RIP Ghostbuster 1 & 2
we all say we want a change and be happy but i think being comfortable while complaining is more important to us than actually doing anything.
buy that puppy btw, get one you can go outside with and will be enthusiastic all the time, I used to have a dog that made me happy, but since *cough* I don't have some cheap source of amusement/ happiness. Cause that's what pets are, it sounds stupid but they really help. and if you have nothing else going on, well you can concentrate on the pet and it will give you plenty to do
And it's a terrible mind state to be in tbf, the notion of doing nothing and complacency. That sitting back and saying, "Well, yes everything is bad, and, that's alright."
I've been debating on getting a cat. Cats don't give a fukk about anything, a sorta not-giving-a-fukkness that is respectable, think the opposite of Kanye.
I catsat (?) for someone last month and this little fukker won't eat unless he sees you put his food in his bowl. One time there was no food in his bowl, just some crumbs and he looked at me like :flo: and pawed the bowl over upside down and dipped out. I just got styled on by a cat but I wasn't even mad
I have to vouch for @penfield with regards to cats.
Something is cool about them being a$$holes and not caring or really needing you. I didnt appreciate them at all until an ex had a cat that was an a$$hole but ended up liking me by the time we split.
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lookin white girl
think it's worth putting the work in for whenever we happen to be in each others vicinity
if you thikn i'm not gonna link after this tldr shyt
RIP Ghostbuster 1 & 2 
I've played it safe for most of my life. Feel like saying fukk it and just living.
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