Clapsteel O'Neal
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thatrapsfan
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This.This is so backwards and counter productive its actually hurting my brain
Take rejection to heart???
DON'T GIVE A fukk.
If you do, you'll get hurt, beleeeee me.
Better off not giving a fukk then letting someone go miley cyrus on YOUR walls innit.
That was gay what i just wrote.
Do you breh.This is so backwards and counter productive its actually hurting my brain
Take rejection to heart???
@yoyoyo1dey doing it wrong outchea!!! we need to bless them, please explain the rating system
Grams, if you truly dgaf what a woman says to you (none of that self pity bollocks) then you've attained a mindstate most avg men wish they could have, dont listen to ya mans liu kang
We don't do shyt the same and I'm not pretending that my advice is universal.
I was talking to him about relationship advice not vagina hunting advice. If he'd take rejection to heart, that will mean that he wants the girl and that he actually cares, simple as that. When I said "take rejection to heart", it was meant to be meaningful as "where did I fukk up ?" and "what could I improve in my game ?". Fear should not be crippling but more like a challenge, an adrenaline rush. Like when you bungee jump, go to ski the first time, or you go in your first fight. shyt should raise your adrenaline instead of pussify you. First time I went skiing. Saw a basic ass slope and was frozen, took a good 10 minutes to go to the bottom of which should have lasted 20 seconds on a schuss. The day after, I was still scared (to fall, to hurt myself, to collide with another skier) but then I took a deep breath and schussed that shyt. Man, the adrenaline
I finally saw the light 
After with harder slopes (red or black ones), I was still scared because my skiing technique was not solid at all and I feel countless times but I just took it as a challenge to overcome.Getting to know the fear (its origin, its causes) will help better as you'll be able to cure the source of the uneasiness. Being fazed is just avoiding the problem to me because ultimately, it's still here.
@Grams, obviously is shook of rejection as he stated it and therefore totally frozen to do anything because of it. And from that extreme, he's going to another one, which is being absolutely reckless. May help him getting puss, but may not being in a relationship. What I advised him was to be in-between. Still getting scared of being rejected (as that would mean he means it) but take it as a motivation more than as an obstacle. I been there, scared to make a move and it resulting in status quo, ie, nothing. Then I told myself "rather been rejected than not doing shyt". Got rejected and got sad/mad but that motivated me to aim better and to improve my approach. Worked sometimes and I got happy. Rejection is part of the game. You have to be molded by it but he won't see the light until he'll be a man. And then it would be nothing but mere blinding to him.
See above.
Oh, so you #HOH brehs are like this because y'all scared of being hurt ? Kawaii.
You need to straight up start telling girls ro watch there mouths or face the consequences, your still a person with feelings and deserve to be treated as such.What do you want me to do breh. I can't slit throats without going to jail
For example i seen one tall lighty with her friend I was like:
Me: hey babes can i chat to you quick?
Her: no, i've got a man
Me: laygh at me again and see if i don't knock every single tooth out your mouth
Her:
Me:think carefully about the next words you say
Her: im sorry
Me:
Clapsteel O'Neal
put a red dot on your head like a hindu
Do you breh.
We don't do shyt the same and I'm not pretending that my advice is universal.
I was talking to him about relationship advice not vagina hunting advice. If he'd take rejection to heart, that will mean that he wants the girl and that he actually cares, simple as that. When I said "take rejection to heart", it was meant to be meaningful as "where did I fukk up ?" and "what could I improve in my game ?". Fear should not be crippling but more like a challenge, an adrenaline rush. Like when you bungee jump, go to ski the first time, or you go in your first fight. shyt should raise your adrenaline instead of pussify you. First time I went skiing. Saw a basic ass slope and was frozen, took a good 10 minutes to go to the bottom of which should have lasted 20 seconds on a schuss. The day after, I was still scared (to fall, to hurt myself, to collide with another skier) but then I took a deep breath and schussed that shyt. Man, the adrenaline
Getting to know the fear (its origin, its causes) will help better as you'll be able to cure the source of the uneasiness. Being fazed is just avoiding the problem to me because ultimately, it's still here.
@Grams, obviously is shook of rejection as he stated it and therefore totally frozen to do anything because of it. And from that extreme, he's going to another one, which is being absolutely reckless. May help him getting puss, but may not being in a relationship. What I advised him was to be in-between. Still getting scared of being rejected (as that would mean he means it) but take it as a motivation more than as an obstacle. I been there, scared to make a move and it resulting in status quo, ie, nothing. Then I told myself "rather been rejected than not doing shyt". Got rejected and got sad/mad but that motivated me to aim better and to improve my approach. Worked sometimes and I got happy. Rejection is part of the game. You have to be molded by it but he won't see the light until he'll be a man. And then it would be nothing but mere blinding to him.
See above.
Breh, don't take the language i'm going to use in this post to heart (see what i did there) because you know i rate all you mans in here highly...but...
What in the bloody hell are you talking about? And i mean that not in the aspect of not understanding what you said because i do but from the aspect of it just not making any sense
I'd liken it to female logic
You keep saying he should take rejection to heart because it'll show to himself that he really wanted the girl and it'll help him improve on himself and see what mistakes he made
But ??????
Of course he already knows that he wanted the girl otherwise he wouldn't have approached her in the first place ffs
and being rejected is more than enough of a hint that he'd need to step his bars up, that doesn't mean he has to take it to heart 
In his situation, caring about what some random trollop on twitter said to him in the bubble of social media is both retarded and some simp sh1t
Are you in a relationship right now yourself??
I'd never tell any man to put stock in womens words, especially in a relationship, they're very emotion and time based, you've actually got to care less about their words in a relationship because more intense and unwitting mind games are being played on their part...actually, forget it i won't go no further
All i'll say is Seriously grams, you don't know how to close to glory you are by not caring about what women say
Anyway, can 3pm just hurry up and get here
Clapsteel O'Neal
put a red dot on your head like a hindu
I'm not scared of sh1t
And im not #hoh either...starting to think man like liu a simp outchea?
Lotta red flags being waived right now I was #HOH, got hurt, and am now #HOH again.
Getting hurt was both worth it and not worth it.
But if you're gonna get hurt, get hurt by someone you're in love with or some shyt, not by standard rejection
Hey, take it as you want. We obviously not on the same wavelengths.Breh, don't take the language i'm going to use in this post to heart (see what i did there) because you know i rate all you mans in here highly...but...
What in the bloody hell are you talking about? And i mean that not in the aspect of not understanding what you said because i do but from the aspect of it just not making any sense
I'd liken it to female logic
You keep saying he should take rejection to heart because it'll show to himself that he really wanted the girl and it'll help him improve on himself and see what mistakes he made
But ??????
Of course he already knows that he wanted the girl otherwise he wouldn't have approached her in the first place ffs
In his situation, caring about what some random trollop on twitter said to him in the bubble of social media is both retarded and some simp sh1t
Are you in a relationship right now yourself??
I'd never tell any man to put stock in womens words, especially in a relationship, they're very emotion and time based, you've actually got to care less about their words in a relationship because more intense and unwitting mind games are being played on their part...actually, forget it i won't go no further
All i'll say is Seriously grams, you don't know how to close to glory you are by not caring about what women say
Anyway, can 3pm just hurry up and get here
I won't go there any further after that reply because the "debate" will be endless but lemme address your points before stopping here :
- All your answers emphasized on me telling him to take things to heart (as opposed to NGAF), why is your solution the only viable one ?
Because it's supposedly "male logic" ? Ultimately, I see that we colliding on views on women/men relations as you seem to see them as feeble and emotion based creatures opposed to males being strong and cold. I don't see things in black and white (never seen things that way) and my experience proved me right. I don't know what women you met and maybe each ones you met actually met your criteria but the ones I've met weren't like yours it seems.
- I take stuff to heart because that's my personality and because @Grams seems to be like that also. Being the cold, pimped put breh only works with people who have the character to be so. Not everyone is. Not @Grams obviously as he would not pour his soul here if he was. I can only recommend my way as mine works with a relatively similar personality (from what he write obviously, I'm no shrink).
- I'm not in a relationship atm (broke up a few months ago, though we may get back together, we don't know) and I'm currently on one night-stand mood which I only do with moderation as I'm not a obsessed gash-chaser. It may be known now that I'm not a breh that goes "too much" whatever he does.
- The twitter stuff. Well that was not really a rejection. IMO, you can not be rejected on the innanetz as there is no physical interaction. That may just be semantics but I mean rejection as a physical one.
What does "simp" means anyway ? I see contradictory definitions of the word on Urban dictionary. What's yours ?
I'm not scared of sh1t
And im not #hoh either...starting to think man like liu a simp outchea?
Clapsteel O'Neal
put a red dot on your head like a hindu
That's kool, but i will say this...don't assume just because i treat women differently to you that means i'm dealing with women of a lower tier to you, mentally or physically...please don't do that
because that would be such a noob move...i would treat the women you deal with the same as any other and i would be confident of getting resultsI can't be bothered to go over your post again bht i'll say that all that i've said could be taken as opinions that apply to every type of woman because they've been formed out of universal rules
But anyway lets not get bogged down on this, the games about to start
didn't listen to that audio battle trash, I was just speculating based on names. of which I did a great job tbf tbh4 finals today
Barca/Atleti, Arsenal/Hull, Bayern/Dortmund (which I have seen no one mention
, Souchaux/Evian
thatrapsfan
Superstar
sorry breh but that's playing it too straight for me. you can try to go in with noble intentions these days, but you WILL get played being straight like that, unless you are dealing with good girls. and are there even any good girls? another topic.
+dap for using kawaii
this is more like it. get hurt when you already in the deep end, not when you haven't even gotten in the pool yet.
Wouldn't call it #HOH, would call it being soft on yourself. Knowing what you know, how will you use that information to your advantage?
Let's say you're talking to an IG trollop. You don't get hurt being rejected by them, cause they probably have 25 others coming at them the same way randomly on twitter or something. And you are not special. Just like she is not special, but she doesn't know it. Because those same 25 guys are sending the same message to 25 other girls.
Let's say you're talking to a normal girl. You don't get hurt being rejected by them, because it's all about how they feel and that kind of thing. If they aren't feeling you, someone else will eventually feel you. Even if it takes 10 tries. Talking to everyone out works eventually if you're that desperate. But if you're out there going "hey ma" (do people even do that, idk) to any girl that passes by, that is self-defeating and you're scared so you shut yourself down before even having a real shot. which is what this whole "randomly hollering on twitter/ig" is these days, except without the feeling rejection.
i fukking hate typing this stuff out
attraction is natural everywhere even if you're an ugly motherfukker, if you can't read the signals too bad
attraction is natural everywhere even if you're an ugly motherfukker, if you can't read the signals too bad