the myth that "its so hard to find a woman without a child"

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The vast majority of dudes are :flabbynsick: in their late 30s and mid 40s though, gravity and father time going to work on em if they haven't been vigilant in the gym.

It just seems easier for a man to prolong the dating life and still end up with someone really attractive and with their life in order, whereas women seemingly have to make a trade off if they do the same, stability and financial well being...but he looks like Danny Trejo.

Nah - again - the guy I was dealing with is late 30s and he goes to the gym every day and fit. Not that I look for all that though - I don't need to be with a male model-type cause I'm not a model myself. Whomever you marry, will eventually get hit by gravity - so maybe you get a few good years, but we're all going to end up "meh" at some point lol
 
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WTF are you talking about. dumb ass
dude isn't 2010 in the four year.
LOL, you bugging nikka

:deadrose:

The irony of calling me dumb.

I'm going to, foolishly, try to break this down for you:

There are three stats presented. The first is instantaneous, the second is about a four year span, the last is about a single year. But they're three separate stats.


fukk it, why am I wasting my time, enjoy your single moms, breh. :snoop:
 

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So let me get this straight..... Out of the top 20 states, 12 out of 20 are in the south, where coincidentally more than 50% of the 13% national black population resides.... :patrice:

On top of that, I live in a state that has roughly around 4 million people....... divide that by half to cut out the males the divide by half again to weed out the too old/too young..... :patrice:

Africa may not be so bad......
 

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Nah - again - the guy I was dealing with is late 30s and he goes to the gym every day and fit. Not that I look for all that though - I don't need to be with a male model-type cause I'm not a model myself. Whomever you marry, will eventually get hit by gravity - so maybe you get a few good years, but we're all going to end up "meh" at some point lol


The exceptions are not the rule, for every dude in their late 30s that are fit and in shape, there's about 80 dudes that look pregnant.

Sure, father time is undefeated, I'm just trying to be with someone that takes it to the late rounds, rather than folding and saying "no mas" in the 3rd. There's nothing more annoying than someone simply letting themselves go, when they can be so much more.
 

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So let me get this straight..... Out of the top 20 states, 12 out of 20 are in the south, where coincidentally more than 50% of the 13% national black population resides.... :patrice:

On top of that, I live in a state that has roughly around 4 million people....... divide that by half to cut out the males the divide by half again to weed out the too old/too young..... :patrice:

Africa may not be so bad......

:russ:

That passport game needs to be apart of your life breh.
 

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The exceptions are not the rule, for every dude in their late 30s that are fit and in shape, there's about 80 dudes that look pregnant.

Sure, father time is undefeated, I'm just trying to be with someone that takes it to the late rounds, rather than folding and saying "no mas" in the 3rd. There's nothing more annoying than someone simply letting themselves go, when they can be so much more.

lol most guys in their 30s look pregnant. Wasn't there a thread saying that the average American male between 30 and 39 is like 5'9 with a 39 inch waist.

The average 30- to 39-year-old American man is 5 foot 9 inches, has a 39-inch waist, and a body mass index (BMI) of 29, just shy of obesity, according to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention's anthropometric data.

yep here's a quote.

so even if I do marry a dude that's 30-32 when I'm 23-25 there's a really high chance he's gonna be a fatty a few years later. I'd rather wait until I'm 30 then marry a 40 year old dude. We can be flabby together. :wow:
 

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The exceptions are not the rule, for every dude in their late 30s that are fit and in shape, there's about 80 dudes that look pregnant.

Sure, father time is undefeated, I'm just trying to be with someone that takes it to the late rounds, rather than folding and saying "no mas" in the 3rd. There's nothing more annoying than someone simply letting themselves go, when they can be so much more.

For sure...but personality is more important to me than looks...so I don't mind if he's not in tip-top shape. Not a deal breaker.
 

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its rare but they out there, i just wasnt destined to be one. i remember i wasnted to adopt kids like my grandma. but apparently that wasnt the life for me.
 

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lol most guys in their 30s look pregnant. Wasn't there a thread saying that the average American male between 30 and 39 is like 5'9 with a 39 inch waist.



yep here's a quote.

so even if I do marry a dude that's 30-32 when I'm 23-25 there's a really high chance he's gonna be a fatty a few years later. I'd rather wait until I'm 30 then marry a 40 year old dude. We can be flabby together. :wow:

Yeah, dudes out here expecting, this country is full of fat slobs on both sides of the fence....and they all waiting on the ice cream truck to roll around.

You and your man can go to the gym together, that's what me and my woman do :manny:


For sure...but personality is more important to me than looks...so I don't mind if he's not in tip-top shape. Not a deal breaker.

Yeah, obviously personality matters the most, but looks and personality aren't mutually exclusive. It's just that a lot of people past 30 don't have the looks anymore :sadcam:

Looking at your significant other and thinking "Damn she's a nice person.....but fukk she looks good, can't wait to molest her later" is a :blessed: feeling.
 
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