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If you sin comes home with eye shadow and pink toe nails w/ and average broad in his arm you gone be ok w/ that. Obviously these females are attracted to borderline gay men. You cool with your son fukking dudes as long as he gets p*ssy to?

Obviously you havent though this through.

Dudes just need to stop turning female trends into masculine trends. I remember dudes wearing scrunches. Smh
It's just a hair style not make up. Why would someone have to fukk dudes cause he wears his hair in a bun? A man who's legit straight isn't going to turn gay just cause he follows a certain trend. If a guy were to go gay that would mean he was attracted to or devolved an attraction to other men. You see this as feminine and a threat to masculinity and hetrosexuality, cool but that only leads me to believe you're insecure when it comes to your own sexuality if you believe that guys wearing their hair in buns would turn the entire black male population gay... I don't mean to be offensive but I can't see any other reason for a man thinking something like this could potentially lead to the majority black males developing a sexual attraction towards other males. Again I don't want to be offensive but it really seems like you're using this idea of dudes turning gay as a reason in you trying to control what other people do especially when it won't effect you at all.
 

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I should perm my hair get a bun and beat all your asses one by one then you'd all be emasculated. Atleast by your standards. :pachaha:
 

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Some men want to look feminine in 2015 :manny: There's still plenty of women who don't go for the feminine look.
 

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It's just a hair style not make up. Why would someone have to fukk dudes cause he wears his hair in a bun? A man who's legit straight isn't going to turn gay just cause he follows a certain trend. If a guy were to go gay that would mean he was attracted to or devolved an attraction to other men. You see this as feminine and a threat to masculinity and hetrosexuality, cool but that only leads me to believe you're insecure when it comes to your own sexuality if you believe that guys wearing their hair in buns would turn the entire black male population gay... I don't mean to be offensive but I can't see any other reason for a man thinking something like this could potentially lead to the majority black males developing a sexual attraction towards other males. Again I don't want to be offensive but it really seems like you're using this idea of dudes turning gay as a reason in you trying to control what other people do especially when it won't effect you at all.
Lets not act like things happening in america dont make it more comfortable for men to explore :wrist:. Rockers wear make up. Men are wearing skirts. Yes, in today's society it is easier to dabble in homosexuality and not be criticized. Especially when women will fukk openly gay men based off swag and money.:snoop:Let alone people like you rationalizing it away as doing it to get p*ssy.

You said if he gets p*ssy its all good. Where does that boundry stop? Your the issue excusing everything based on getting p*ssy. When its plenty of men having sex w/ out :wrist:highlights sprinkled about them.

If you feel im insecure, cool. Im a father of boys and your views(dress/act feminine, sacrifice your masculinity for an outside shot at p*ssy:laff:) are exactly what i dont want them to adopt. Tell me more so i know what to guard against.:feedme:
 

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So you're implying that wearing a bun doesn't make those men feminine.

No she's posting pictures of men wearing buns and saying that since we are calling those pics gay then the pics she posted of men should be considered gay too. I said no. I would certainly call the white man in the picture that I posted gay, but I would not call shaka zula gay. A lot of men in American society are effeminate.
 

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Lets not act like things happening in america dont make it more comfortable for men to explore :wrist:. Rockers wear make up. Men are wearing skirts. Yes, in today's society it is easier to dabble in homosexuality and not be criticized. Especially when women will fukk openly gay men based off swag and money.:snoop:Let alone people like you rationalizing it away as doing it to get p*ssy.

You said if he gets p*ssy its all good. Where does that boundry stop? Your the issue excusing everything based on getting p*ssy. When its plenty of men having sex w/ out :wrist:highlights sprinkled about them.

If you feel im insecure, cool. Im a father of boys and your views(dress/act feminine, sacrifice your masculinity for an outside shot at p*ssy:laff:) are exactly what i dont want them to adopt. Tell me more so i know what to guard against.:feedme:
Man I don't have to make an excuse for other people dressing the way they dress. I was simply saying that if girls like it good on them, I certainly don't see how girls liking their style makes them any gayer. Which is kind of what I said didn't make sense about your post. How does a man wearing his hair in a bun make him any gayer than he was prior? As I said before sexual orientation is based off of sexual attraction not based off some trend that a group of paranoid men find feminine. And yes you do seem a bit insecure and homophobic. If you believe that men wearing their hair in a bun will whipe out the heterosexual demographic then that's a problem with you. Any straight man who's truly attracted to women knows if he is or if he isn't and dressing a certain way won't change that. The way a man dresses is symbolic of nothing besides the way the other. Person precieves it. If you perceive a man to be a homosexual simply for wearing a bun and tight pants you only do so because you were conditioned to believe that's what a homosexual should look like. Do you teach your boys that being a man is about following the crowd in fear of being judged by the public? Because you putting so much infested on hair style when discussing the standard for masculinity makes me question if you're actually going over the important shyt.
 

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No she's posting pictures of men wearing buns and saying that since we are calling those pics gay then the pics she posted of men should be considered gay too. I said no. I would certainly call the white man in the picture that I posted gay, but I would not call shaka zula gay. A lot of men in American society are effeminate.
Right so nothing gay about a bun itself?
 

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A bun, lip stick, and a skirt is not gay. Those are objects. Yet a man wearing a bun, lip stick, and a skirt is gay. A lot of these men in America wearing buns are effeminate or gay.
Exactly nothing at all gay or feminine about a bun itself, you only view men wearing one as gay or fimmine because your were conditioned to believe it; which doesn't account for the other seven billion something people around the world within other cultures. Even in America most men I see in 2015 aren't labeled as gay for wearing what you select few consider feminine, why bother to further stigmatize something that's becoming a social norm?
 
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