Essential The Locker Room's Random Thoughts

Ol’Otis

The Picasso of the Ghetto
Joined
Aug 30, 2015
Messages
64,734
Reputation
19,771
Daps
265,124
Reppin
South Central Los Angeles
Whenever you better yourself or develop self esteem (if you were overly insecure) folks will start acting funny toward you. You may stop hearing from them. Then when you are stable in this change and receiving major attention, they'll start reaching out and wanting to be affiliated with you again - opportunists.
:mjcry: fukk em all
 

Prynce

Joined
Feb 24, 2015
Messages
24,763
Reputation
13,881
Daps
93,391
This girl is a tease and literally has me in my feelings after this weekend . I am going to workout tonight and I don't want to speak to anyone. She's good smh.
Can't be going out sad for these hoes, slime

Learned that lesson the hard way. Just put her out ya mind and focus on your hobbies. My bad for giving advice when you didn't ask for it lol.
 

Lo-Co

........
Joined
Aug 9, 2014
Messages
24,074
Reputation
7,643
Daps
55,482
Reppin
NYC
Whenever you better yourself or develop self esteem (if you were overly insecure) folks will start acting funny toward you. You may stop hearing from them. Then when you are stable in this change and receiving major attention, they'll start reaching out and wanting to be affiliated with you again - opportunists.
Its honestly when you see the fakeness. Like people stopped fukking with me when I was down and suicidal. Now everyone is trying to get in touch and "catch up". They could suck my dikk.
 

Lo-Co

........
Joined
Aug 9, 2014
Messages
24,074
Reputation
7,643
Daps
55,482
Reppin
NYC
Right!
Individualism /being solo dolo for the most part is the safest.
I don't like being around or dealing with hella ppl anyway.
I used think I was a loser because I wasn't like my sister, going out every weekend, being surrounded by hella people and partying and drinking and all that. But when you learn to become your greatest company and care about yourself and learn to enjoy life and events on your own, you put yourself at peace and extra vessels aren't necessary.
 

Aphrodite

The Black Venus
Joined
Sep 30, 2014
Messages
36,152
Reputation
8,465
Daps
66,201
Its honestly when you see the fakeness. Like people stopped fukking with me when I was down and suicidal. Now everyone is trying to get in touch and "catch up". They could suck my dikk.
Actually ppl prefer when you are miserable and self doubting. Just not constantly complaining to them. That's probably why they cut you off. They were comfortable with you feeling low (at a low frequency) however you probably got 'annoying' to them.
 

Aphrodite

The Black Venus
Joined
Sep 30, 2014
Messages
36,152
Reputation
8,465
Daps
66,201
To me she's some i look up to, but to her I'm like the annoying little cousin. My sister avoid me on social media too :mjcry:
If you glowed up in every way, surpassed her follow count and got the attention she gets or more, you'd see the real her openly. It wont be so sly. Ppl you love or admire/ look up to sometimes feel threatened by you and the feeling is not completely mutual. You are just tolerated. They aren't obligated to love you back.

Your own sibling, mother, best friend can feel some way about you, but just tolerate you.

Mothers be jealous/envious and competing with their own daughters. Who they created.
 

JackRoss

Veteran
Joined
Jun 21, 2015
Messages
34,089
Reputation
3,227
Daps
74,141
Jarhead is a movie I liked and still like.. It wasn't until later I realized a lot of war movies are propaganda tools... Smh.. From gooks to sand ******s.. This country aint normal.. Glad i grew up and saw what shyt was before it was too late years ago during the ignorance.. It's very strong now. I hope yall make it through this struggle
 

TheLostOnes

Laker for life
Supporter
Joined
Oct 31, 2016
Messages
12,895
Reputation
5,444
Daps
22,452
Reppin
Philadelphia
If you glowed up in every way, surpassed her follow count and got the attention she gets or more, you'd see the real her openly. It wont be so sly. Ppl you love or admire/ look up to sometimes feel threatened by you and the feeling is not completely mutual. You are just tolerated. They aren't obligated to love you back.

Your own sibling, mother, best friend can feel some way about you, but just tolerate you.

Mothers be jealous/envious and competing with their own daughters. Who they created.
I have seen this happen a few times in my life so far. Sad really :francis:
 

Lo-Co

........
Joined
Aug 9, 2014
Messages
24,074
Reputation
7,643
Daps
55,482
Reppin
NYC
Actually ppl prefer when you are miserable and self doubting. Just not constantly complaining to them. That's probably why they cut you off. They were comfortable with you feeling low (at a low frequency) however you probably got 'annoying' to them.
I can admit that happened witj some people. But I need help at the time. And to a degree I got better on my own and stopped asking for advice from them and just became super mellow as opposed to acting like a black Chris Farley everyday.
So they assumed I was sad all the time when I was just super calm. That's what drove me away from them. I was treated like the boy who cried wolf.
 
Top