It is a slur.
(many find it problematic)
It's used among other trans folk.
& that's good.
But what about your pals who always do post them? post about them?
Who supposedly find it gross but can't seem to not fixate on it?
Is that not weird to you?
And why is it only trans women that get posted about? Never trans men?
Ask "my pals" by idk making a thread or something