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All Jamaican women smell like weed anyway. Begone, skunky :scust:
 

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Women should be able to give their opinion without being attacked for it no matter where it's at. I understand if you feel like the Mods should of been helping out on that, which I agree they should of been on it. But if you don't say anything to em, then probably just gonna keep ignoring the situation or maybe they don't have enough man power to handle the traffic on that part of the forum.

Have y'all tried talking to mods about the situation? I know y'all might not wanna go to the trouble of seeking a solution hell, y'all shouldn't even be going through this to begin with. Maybe actually give it a try?

They might have to go through the trouble of speaking up. I think it's a given that with most hip-hop related msgboards the men/women count is always going to have more males than females. This is FACT. I seen it every site I've been a member of. A closed mouth won't get fed if you never open it.
 

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I believe this to a degree. But in general I don't feel sexuality is black and white how ppl wish and want it to be because its easier to understand and 'prettier'. It's easier to feed people. No two people have the same sexuality regardless if they identify the same. Even bisexuals. Still different preferences...sexuality, like life is grey and complicated (made of many things) and that scares society. Just because you 'identify' one way doesn't make it thorough and genuine. Many ppl just pick a side and lane/role and internalize curiosities, attractions and fantasies.
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I feel like I understand somewhat of what you are saying, but I don't sorta see the clear picture of what you are trying to say. Can you like give me a clearer message?
 

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Yup pretty much

So what are your thoughts on the Innate bisexuality theory? And where do you fall on the Kinsey scale?
I'll give you a little story.

My mom knew I liked boys. But I later came out to her that I was bi. My mom is mostly conversative though in her views. I told her one day when we went out to eat that I felt like I also liked women. My mom's reaction was very nonchalant, then she broke down to me how she feels too. She said we all have that masculine and feminine energy (not just one or the other) and she sometimes see women like a man does. But she said it has to be a feminine woman (if she is attracted to women).

She's not attracted to vagina though. She always talks about vagina in a way like it's funky. So that would be the thing that would probably also prevent her from going that route.

We used Cubana Lust for an example. It was this gif of Cubana Lust clapping her ass in the shower and my mom was like 'That's dangerous for even me to look at because it makes me have thoughts. It makes me look at her in the same way a nikka would.' It was like an admiration and sexual attraction. My mom doesn't even like getting ate out and she doesn't give oral. She identifies as straight but said we all have those type of thoughts/curiosities and anyone who says otherwise is lying. She said people take it to the grave and repress it. She said she wouldn't be into a masculine chick. It could be because she is more dominant herself. She said the issue is when bisexual people flip flop and go from a man to a woman to a man to a woman. To her personally, it's not clean. But she was like (with my last step father), 'I can't say if it don't work out with us, I wouldn't go that route.'

Me personally, I am attracted to men and women, however my only sexual experiences are with men and it's something about men that makes me feel comfortable. More comfortable in a relationship concept. Generally, I don't like being around a lot of men or women, especially men because of the reactions I get with my body. I think a lot of men are also emotionally like women or worse, so the whole argument about women being more emotional isn't true to me. I could be with a woman, but she would have to be JUST LIKE ME. Like dominant personality, leader, beautiful, sexy. Etc. With a guy, he can be whatever. I'm more precise with what I like with women than men.
 

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I feel like I understand somewhat of what you are saying, but I don't sorta see the clear picture of what you are trying to say. Can you like give me a clearer message?
Every single person on this planet is different. So to box all people who identify as "heterosexual" and say they are supposed to like and only like certain things does a disservice when most people are just choosing sides anyway.

You and every hetero man in this thread are turned on by different things for different reasons.
 

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See I know I'm still "new" to the site but I ain't come to thecoli for no fukkin sausagefest and I mean that in all seriousness. When I started in December it was way more women posting on here and some of those same women I seen in here when I started are either gone, barely post, or only post in The Salon section most of the time. If this has become an issue the ladies need to speak up on it more and mods should do something about it. Idk but if it was me and I were the admin of the site I would have some sort of harassment policy in place because a lot of cats get out of control on here. Then the women get ran away. If the mods don't get a handle on the shyt this place can easily turn into the IC/Boxden.

I didn't come here for a sauagefest site. That's why I stopped posting on the IC/Boxden on a regular basis.
Yeah, that's what I see too. There's gotta be more restriction in place, I understand dudes wanna give their honest opinion on what the subject matter is, but attacking the women is crossing the line. Women shouldn't have to be stuck in one section of the forum because the biggest section of the forum feel some type of way. They need to leave that shyt at home or get checked. Making a list in a thread won't solve the problem, because they can keep saying in form of attacking that they know won't see any consequences. If I was a mod in TLR, I would killed that shyt the moment I seen it or seen it reported. And if it keeps poppin up, then I talk to the top dawg about the situation and get the a better understand with the women on how we can make this place more better for EVERYBODY and I mean EVERYBODY.
 
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