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A relative tried to guilt trip me into making a funeral donation for someone I never really had a relationship with. The person who died is my dad's nephew, even lived in my house when i was young kid, and we share a last name. But I aint seen or heard from dude in 10+ years when he died, and I havent heard/seen my dad in 5 years.
Anyway, so adistant cousin I grew up with hit me up on FB under the false pretense of catching up, then was like
Him: "Well, I'm gonna put you and ya wife down for a $100 donation. You can choose to pay me back or not"
Me: Wait, what?
Him: I'm just being politically correct, its gonna look bad if none of your dad's kids don't donate.
Me: Nah, don't put nothing in my name.
I felt like if my pops wanted to reach out for a donation, he can humble himself and talk to me directly so I can say "fukk no" to his face.
Am I being petty? Am I wrong? Not that I care, lol.
Ol girl who posted before says you can't pick ya family. I beg to differ. Blood just don't make you family in my eyes.
Anyway, so adistant cousin I grew up with hit me up on FB under the false pretense of catching up, then was like
Him: "Well, I'm gonna put you and ya wife down for a $100 donation. You can choose to pay me back or not"
Me: Wait, what?
Him: I'm just being politically correct, its gonna look bad if none of your dad's kids don't donate.
Me: Nah, don't put nothing in my name.
I felt like if my pops wanted to reach out for a donation, he can humble himself and talk to me directly so I can say "fukk no" to his face.
Am I being petty? Am I wrong? Not that I care, lol.
Ol girl who posted before says you can't pick ya family. I beg to differ. Blood just don't make you family in my eyes.
61 Corpses
The Breh
Is it immediate family who is giving you problems or family thats not that close?
Not immediate. Aunts, cousin, ect...
61 Corpses
The Breh
Hope you're ok
Lol at you cousin trying to finesse with the "you can choose to pay me back or not"A relative tried to guilt trip me into making a funeral donation for someone I never really had a relationship with. The person who died is my dad's nephew, even lived in my house when i was young kid, and we share a last name. But I aint seen or heard from dude in 10+ years when he died, and I havent heard/seen my dad in 5 years.
Anyway, so adistant cousin I grew up with hit me up on FB under the false pretense of catching up, then was like
Him: "Well, I'm gonna put you and ya wife down for a $100 donation. You can choose to pay me back or not"
Me: Wait, what?
Him: I'm just being politically correct, its gonna look bad if none of your dad's kids don't donate.
Me: Nah, don't put nothing in my name.
I felt like if my pops wanted to reach out for a donation, he can humble himself and talk to me directly so I can say "fukk no" to his face.
Am I being petty? Am I wrong? Not that I care, lol.
Ol girl who posted before says you can't pick ya family. I beg to differ. Blood just don't make you family in my eyes.
FOH nikkaThank u, I will be. It is just really sad how people can be. I believe in karma though.Hope you're ok
i hate daylight savings time in the spring....throws my whole body off...still feelin sleepy as hell
explain breh?not having the first 90K of your pay taxed
but the tax on the rest
When you are a contractor overseas- the 1st 90K is not taxed
A relative tried to guilt trip me into making a funeral donation for someone I never really had a relationship with. The person who died is my dad's nephew, even lived in my house when i was young kid, and we share a last name. But I aint seen or heard from dude in 10+ years when he died, and I havent heard/seen my dad in 5 years.
Anyway, so adistant cousin I grew up with hit me up on FB under the false pretense of catching up, then was like
Him: "Well, I'm gonna put you and ya wife down for a $100 donation. You can choose to pay me back or not"
Me: Wait, what?
Him: I'm just being politically correct, its gonna look bad if none of your dad's kids don't donate.
Me: Nah, don't put nothing in my name.
I felt like if my pops wanted to reach out for a donation, he can humble himself and talk to me directly so I can say "fukk no" to his face.
Am I being petty? Am I wrong? Not that I care, lol.
Ol girl who posted before says you can't pick ya family. I beg to differ. Blood just don't make you family in my eyes.
My aunt did something kinda similar and stupid. Didn't say a word to any of us at the wake or the funeral and then emailed my only uncle that doesn't live in baltimore with a spreadsheet attached that had the amount everyone needed to pay and a due date lmao. Of course her name was filed out with the amount she had paid. We didn't even bother responding to her.
LMAO. People got some cot dayum nerve, I swear. My cousin was not expecting my answer, he probably thought I'd give in when he was like "I dont want you or your brothers to look bad". In my mind I was like "NAH, let me look bad. I can deal with the consequences, cuz there won't be any."