shyt you ain't the only one.
Just remember, ask questions, actually LISTEN to what she saying, then just take the baton from there. And keep doing this on repeat. A lot of dudes fukk up cause they expect to talk nothing but smashing cervixes and sending nudes the whole got damn convo, don't want to throw some humor or nothing in the mix.
I mean if a chick just looking to fukk, that'll work in a lot of cases, but nikkas ain't lying when they tell you "boring" is the number one nail in the coffin when trying to do this social life shyt.