Feeling so frustrated today. Why do so many adults struggle with direct communication?
I legit had 3 seperate conversations today and all 3 failed.
In the last conversation, a family member planned an outing for everyone today. But this morning I heard her tell her husband that he couldn't go because his foot swollen up. I asked her was he too messed up to go and she said he was.
I figured the shyt would be canceled but I called to make sure before I came so I could grab something to eat. When I talk to her she said it was still on but started grilling me about whether I wanted to go.
I told her it was fine. In my mind, I'm thinking " YOU said the shyt was canceled." I get there and she starts grilling me again.
I am a very direct communicator so I hate repeating myself and I hate even more when someone tries to "decipher" a direct communication.
Now she is acting like I hurt her feeling because I told her in a firmer tone it was fine and stop asking me.
This is exactly why I can't be in a relationship. Silly ass annoying shyt. If she wasn't family I would literally cut her off for this goofy shyt. Do that dumb shyt with your husband.
I legit had 3 seperate conversations today and all 3 failed.
In the last conversation, a family member planned an outing for everyone today. But this morning I heard her tell her husband that he couldn't go because his foot swollen up. I asked her was he too messed up to go and she said he was.
I figured the shyt would be canceled but I called to make sure before I came so I could grab something to eat. When I talk to her she said it was still on but started grilling me about whether I wanted to go.
I told her it was fine. In my mind, I'm thinking " YOU said the shyt was canceled." I get there and she starts grilling me again.
I am a very direct communicator so I hate repeating myself and I hate even more when someone tries to "decipher" a direct communication.
Now she is acting like I hurt her feeling because I told her in a firmer tone it was fine and stop asking me.
This is exactly why I can't be in a relationship. Silly ass annoying shyt. If she wasn't family I would literally cut her off for this goofy shyt. Do that dumb shyt with your husband.