Ended (I think) things with a woman I've been seeing the last two months.
To be fair, I've kind of been dikking her around by not being consistent in how often I talk to her/when I see her but she really pissed me off this weekend.
We went out for brunch and I realised when I asked for the bill that I had forgotten my wallet. I've paid for every date we've had before this so didn't think it would be a big deal to tell her. Boy was I wrong.
After telling her I had forgotten my wallet, this woman legit just stared at me as if to say, "Okay, how is that my problem?
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It's like she wanted me to beg her to cover the bill.
Anyway, I calmly ask her if she would mind covering the bill and she gives me this other look which is a mixture of disgust and smugness, like she's doing me a damn favour by covering ONE DATE.
I lost it after that and insisted that she send me her account details so I can repay her as soon as I get home. I'm sure she could tell I was pissed off because she starts downplaying it and turning down my offer, saying "it's not a big deal" despite her reactions saying the complete opposite initially. I must admit, I didn't do a good job of hiding my annoyance during this part.
By the time the bill was paid, she gets up to leave the restuarant and I remained seated in my chair. I just dismissively told her "bye" without looking offering to walk her out or even hugging her.
She either felt bad after seeing my reaction or was scared (maybe a bit of both) because she tried briefly to smooth things over but I was giving her one word answers at this point and not even looking in her direction. We haven't spoken or texted since then (and I don't want to either.)
It literally took me the whole weekend for my anger to dissipate after this happened. I still don't know who the fukk she thought she was trying to punk me like that. fukk her.