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I heard what I heard
Tomorrow is elder abuse awareness day. I gotta remind my mama not to let anyone abuse her. Lol like she’d allow it. She fukk around and do the abusing.
This should not even be an awareness dayI know it happens A LOT but DAmN how evil is our species?????
One of the white coaches for my daughter’s softball team showed up 15 minutes late to the game…with all the equipment. She always late!!
I told her she needs to get on “white people” time. She thought I was funny, but I was serious.
I told her she needs to get on “white people” time. She thought I was funny, but I was serious.
I think they are also including Internet scamming and stuff as well.
I know it happens A LOT but DAmN how evil is our species?????
My biological father has decided that he wants to slide his self back into the picture. 
After 10 years, all of a sudden him and his wife want to come drive down from Virginia to meet his grandchildren.
It’s putting additional stress on me because I have to explain to them the difference between their “Pa Pa” (my step father) and this stranger.
This is going to be awkward as hell.
I might need an edible or a couple of shots to take the edge off.
After 10 years, all of a sudden him and his wife want to come drive down from Virginia to meet his grandchildren.
It’s putting additional stress on me because I have to explain to them the difference between their “Pa Pa” (my step father) and this stranger.
This is going to be awkward as hell.
I might need an edible or a couple of shots to take the edge off.
Tell that whore he better not come empty handed either!!!My biological father has decided that he wants to slide his self back into the picture.
After 10 years, all of a sudden him and his wife want to come drive down from Virginia to meet his grandchildren.
It’s putting additional stress on me because I have to explain to them the difference between their “Pa Pa” (my step father) and this stranger.
This is going to be awkward as hell.
I might need an edible or a couple of shots to take the edge off.
My biological father has decided that he wants to slide his self back into the picture.
After 10 years, all of a sudden him and his wife want to come drive down from Virginia to meet his grandchildren.
It’s putting additional stress on me because I have to explain to them the difference between their “Pa Pa” (my step father) and this stranger.
This is going to be awkward as hell.
I might need an edible or a couple of shots to take the edge off.
my BFF is like my sister and she Finally let her deadbeat dad in her life and she told me it was the best decision ever. God bless you sis.
Separate names would be best for lil kids cause they really don’t know l. Auntie, uncle, ma, dad , pawpaw, granny, g mama, g nanny ,pop pop, grandpa, g dad ….Uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu ( ghetto ass uncle has all the kids calling him this like he Soulja Boy). It’s easier because they associate the name with a “job/role” in their life ( I can’t think of the right term)
It doesn’t matter if the lil ones know exactly who he is to them or you right now, but just how he makes them And you feel. (Insert Maya Angelou quote) . once they get older , that will be the time to explain what happened and blahblah.They just need 1234abc to be a good part of their life , even if 1234abc wasn’t a good part of yours.
Our jobs as mothers is to give our kids the best experience ever , even if we didn’t have one. It’s good to hear different stories and experiences (if healthy ) But hell, if he’s not healthy for you , your lil diva , soon-to-be demon spawn , or your family in general, then protect YOU and your babies from that negative energy and politely part ways.
If he’s a bum, don’t let that nikka around your spawn , use your judgement but open your heart to forgiveness
THAT being said ….
You have your baby yet? How’s the lil mini me Diva???? Is it a girl? I’m tryna send tutus!!!!!!!! Me and Katy are the only females in this house !!!! 2/6=1/3Edit: you know what? NEG!!!!!!! for having me go through all these emotions at this emotional time in my life of emotions
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It’s not yall, it’s me.
How different our responses are
What?!!?
Nothing gets me more heated. Oooh chileTomorrow is elder abuse awareness day. I gotta remind my mama not to let anyone abuse her
Oh yes!
If he doesn’t pull up and pop the trunk or at least pull out his wallet and hand over some cash, we gonna have some problems. Money and material things don’t solve the problem(s) but it does buy him a hour or two of visitation.
my BFF is like my sister and she Finally let her deadbeat dad in her life and she told me it was the best decision ever. God bless you sis.
Separate names would be best for lil kids cause they really don’t know l. Auntie, uncle, ma, dad , pawpaw, granny, g mama, g nanny ,pop pop, grandpa, g dad ….Uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu ( ghetto ass uncle has all the kids calling him this like he Soulja Boy). It’s easier because they associate the name with a “job/role” in their life ( I can’t think of the right term)
It doesn’t matter if the lil ones know exactly who he is to them or you right now, but just how he makes them And you feel. (Insert Maya Angelou quote) . once they get older , that will be the time to explain what happened and blahblah.They just need 1234abc to be a good part of their life , even if 1234abc wasn’t a good part of yours.
Our jobs as mothers is to give our kids the best experience ever , even if we didn’t have one. It’s good to hear different stories and experiences (if healthy ) But hell, if he’s not healthy for you , your lil diva , soon-to-be demon spawn , or your family in general, then protect YOU and your babies from that negative energy and politely part ways.
If he’s a bum, don’t let that nikka around your spawn , use your judgement but open your heart to forgiveness
THAT being said ….
Edit: you know what? NEG!!!!!!! for having me go through all these emotions at this emotional time in my life of emotions
I 100% agree. I want them to know the difference is clear and be able to distinguish the two. It will take YEARS of prayer and therapy to fix the shyt he’s put me through and the long lasting effects of his actions on my life but maybe he can be better to his grandchildren.
I’ll say this though...he got one time to give off the wrong energy towards my kids or disappointment them they way he did me and he can be gone again just as fast as he reappeared.
And....
Yes. I had my son June 6th. I’m dealing with the aftermath of my pregnancy and c section but at least he’s out of my body!
I’m freeeeeeee! My daughter is great! Same ol silly girl. She got her hair twisted and ears pierced yesterday so she’s been walking around like she’s cute and her shyt don’t stink.
Been in my Mary J bag all day
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