Wasup fam ?I’m depressed AF and feel like ending it ..
My homegirl sends me a screenshot of this gofundme for a chick we both know, she used to be close with but they had a falling out. She needs $4k for medical expenses and bills.
Her: I donated $20, just to show her she missed out on a good friend and that I still support her regardless
Me to myself: Yeah that's not really the reason why you should be donating, but cool.
Her: She send me a message saying thank you, but she should be apologizing for talking about me when we fell out
Ma'am, why are you trying to bogart an apology from someone via a gofundme donation. Not to mention, you donated 0.5% of what's needed. Acting like you did something.
This was good advice I appreciate itPursuing and maintaining friendships like we do as men is an impossibility with women unless you’re absolutely uninterested in said female or you’re willing to sacrifice your time freely in hopes that you’ll pull off the slim chance of success in upgrading the relationship. It’s ok to play in the sandbox for awhile but as you get older you don’t have time for it.
If you’re going to enter the arena..you should be ready to play the game all the way to end and when you’re done playing, you need to be all the way done with it. There’s no saved games, no checkpoints, all of that is erased. You backed off from this woman when there wasn’t a good vibe left..why did you respond when she texted you? If you were done, then it’s done. Either you tell her to fukk off or ignore her..you don’t think she got some satisfaction seeing that she still can get your attention even after a long pause? That’s basic game. Now you’re sitting at home listening to mood music and mystified over a text, my dude.
Women are women, man. nikkas keep it simple..but you’re asking for too much trying to decipher what goes on emotionally with women and you doing too much trying to treat them like your boys. Don’t work like that. Either you become adept at countering the bullshyt til you reach a satisfactory conclusion or you lay out directly what the fukk you want from her.
Pursuing and maintaining friendships like we do as men is an impossibility with women unless you’re absolutely uninterested in said female or you’re willing to sacrifice your time freely in hopes that you’ll pull off the slim chance of success in upgrading the relationship. It’s ok to play in the sandbox for awhile but as you get older you don’t have time for it.
If you’re going to enter the arena..you should be ready to play the game all the way to end and when you’re done playing, you need to be all the way done with it. There’s no saved games, no checkpoints, all of that is erased. You backed off from this woman when there wasn’t a good vibe left..why did you respond when she texted you? If you were done, then it’s done. Either you tell her to fukk off or ignore her..you don’t think she got some satisfaction seeing that she still can get your attention even after a long pause? That’s basic game. Now you’re sitting at home listening to mood music and mystified over a text, my dude.
Women are women, man. nikkas keep it simple..but you’re asking for too much trying to decipher what goes on emotionally with women and you doing too much trying to treat them like your boys. Don’t work like that. Either you become adept at countering the bullshyt til you reach a satisfactory conclusion or you lay out directly what the fukk you want from her.