So I got an offer for an apartment. I’m really excited because it’s a big step, I’m graduating college, and I’ll finally have my own place god willing. Now though, I’m thinking about it more. My girl wants to live with me, and I’m not too sure I want that. I like having my own space, being alone, and generally enjoying peace and quiet. I enjoy having the ability to be a bit reclusive
While yes I love her and see a future with her, I’m really debating whether or not this is the right decision. I don’t want to end up feeling suffocated, or as if things are moving too fast, which is clearly what she wants. Everything is us us us and we we we, but I also want to think about just myself, but it never feels like I can. Sometimes I wonder what I signed up for