People don’t realize the way you grow up in your early childhood and teenage years is very important to your development hence “coming of age.” A cult can really do damage to someone. It’s possible she’s mentally stuck. When my mom passed a lot of her family started contacting me, then I realized why moms cut them off.
They all immature as fukk. I used to beg my mom to let me see them, but the only ones I seen was my ratchet ass cousins from South Central. Besides being hood they was good peoples.
Now I understand why my sister in law/cousin is the only one who really knew my mom. She even warned me that her sister is mad immature. Always trash talking her baby father but his ass is the one who smuggled her into America.
She tried to tell me “oh your (my mom) daughter, I thought you was Spanish”
I look exactly like my mom. I honestly don’t know how you’re friends with her. I’d cut her off. She seems exhausting.