If you ask for my counsel, what good does it do you if you act contrary to it? As if I'm invested to see your downfall or if my faculties have suddenly failed me that I should make it imperative to see you struggle?
You and the man you have chosen are content to be liars, it's much easier to swallow the lies you trade between each other than admit that you're both horribly mismatched in all things but sex. How can you both rise up in the mornings hating each other but for the sake of an orgasm tolerate each others hatred? Why would you even want to allow that energy to go directly into you? That moment of ecstasy only lasts minutes, my sister.. And the day yet still remains to be conquered. How strong are your shoulders to bear the increasing weight of your conflicting emotions, the stress?
Yet, in spite of my aggravation, I will remain stationary and observe to always be here for you as your big brother in case it becomes too much for you.