Dating a guy with kids isn't as bad as I thought it would be. A guy I am seeing has a daughter and son. The son is grown the daughter is younger. They both adore me. The daughter is actually mentally conflicted about liking me which is interesting. She's tried to come for me once and I checked her and she's been cool with me ever since. It's actually nice just being "the good guy" the kids like without the responsibilities. As soon as the kid acts up you give them right back. I think it's a good way to observe what parent hood plus if a dude is already a parent he knows what to do and will probably be a parent than he was with the first one/ones. On top of that you can see what kind of father/man he really is.
Sounds familiar