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Seoul Gleou

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I'm assuming she just recently went out the country and this is new behavior? It doesn't seem like you can handle being in a long distance relationship and should break up while she's away and figure it out when she gets back if feelings are still there. If you're not willing to do that, have a conversation with her, and perhaps readjust your expectations. She just may be unable to communicate as frequently as before. It may only be once or twice a week for now. Write her a letter.
I don't think my expectations are too high. We use WhatsApp to communicate and I know when she's online and when she reads my messages. It doesn't take 24 hours to reply to a message to your boyfriend...especially if you read the message 10 minutes after he sent it:stopitslime:

my expectations are also based on our previous experience being apart. when she was gone for a month, she messaged every morning and night to me and asked how i was, i did the same and there was communication between us at least daily. i havent even seen her for a month and a half:gucci:

dont know what else there is to expect if the bare minimum of communication isnt happening:manny:
 

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Good looking out! Definitely looking for an external one. My daughter's laptop is only 32-bit, so she's unable to play most video games on it, so software based just isn't the move right now. Do you think it would be worth it to upgrade her to a "gaming" laptop? Is it more versatile or is having a specific gaming system the better way to go? Right now she has an Xbox, but wants a PlayStation. If the laptop gives her more options, I'd just rather spend money on that.
Yea it will prolly last her a lil bit until next gen when the ps5 and Xbox two comes out. You balling so get her something with like a 1080 graphics card and that's will be future proofed for at least the next 3 years
 

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Yea it will prolly last her a lil bit until next gen when the ps5 and Xbox two comes out. You balling so get her something with like a 1080 graphics card and that's will be future proofed for at least the next 3 years
I’m bankrupt.
 

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You still got me on ignore?
I never had YOU on ignore, I just chose to ignore because you made me mad and I felt that was good enough reason at the time. Then time passed, I got over it but too prideful to reach out :manny:

Dip is on my ignore list though. I believe permanently, I forget.
 

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I wonder when I’ll learn how to not put myself in situations that leave me hurt in the end.
 
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