A girl I liked alot broke it off with me two weeks ago. shyt done changed me brehs.
Made me realize how immature, clingy, and needy ive been. Made me realize you cant be out here playing the game safe, always with integrity, and not putting yourself first at all times.
Also made me realize that as I enter my 30s, I gotta dead alot of my old habits/personality tics. There a fine line between never change and remaining stagnant. For the longest time ive realized Ive been pretty stagnant in my personality growth. In how i view my own life journey.
We talk alot here on the forums about bossing up your life in terms of 6 certs, 6 figures, 6 pack of abs...but that shyt is meaningless if you cant fix whats in your head. You gotta conquer those mental blocks. Really push your limits and alter your perception. Something Im just figuring out.
Never change to please anyone, but also reflect on your relationships, even your friendships and REALLY perceive it all in context and the subtle behaviors you do.
One thing I realized about me and my crew is....We're very boring lol. We didnt have the typical college experience. We never were responsibility free but we also had shyt to lose. So most of us are
AND still broke...a lethal combination....Seems like most people are content with being broke but LIVING, a viewpoint I used to look down upon but now im reconsidering....