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I know the feeling muthafukkas will test you
I gotta start setting boundaries again :snoop:
Its nothing deep. My mother was out with a close family friend (another woman) at the carnival village here and some man threatened her after invading her friend's personal space and said some other comments. My mom wasn't phased because she saw the bytch in him and called him out. Other men stepped in a checked him but this is an insulated community and I will see him somewhere at some point. Its not even like there was some playground insults back and forth that I'd normally ignore but threatening is something else. My friend told me that I just need to relax especially since its already happened and I'd be liable for anything else that would happen after the fact so...

To top it off they don't even care about it like that and consider it a joke at this point so I'm probably just doing too much.
 

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In a weird way that would be a solution for me.

So you have someone that in any space, capacity, context has left you feeling aggrieved due to some shyt. You want to naturally respond accordingly but you also want to get away with it so there's no consequences...how do you go about dealing with it?

Just speaking from experience, plotting revenge can be very consuming and put you in a negative head space and just overall not a good look emotionally. Assuming this happened recently, I'd say chill on it for now, not necessarily move on or drop it, but focus on something positive in it's place and revisit that situation and your emotions in a couple weeks/months. The initial feeling when you're fukked over is most hurtful, but after a while it simmers out and you realize how unimportant the person and situation it over all. Sorry this happened to you.
 

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Its nothing deep. My mother was out with a close family friend (another woman) at the carnival village here and some man threatened her after invading her friend's personal space and said some other comments. My mom wasn't phased because she saw the bytch in him and called him out. Other men stepped in a checked him but this is an insulated community and I will see him somewhere at some point. Its not even like there was some playground insults back and forth that I'd normally ignore but threatening is something else. My friend told me that I just need to relax especially since its already happened and I'd be liable for anything else that would happen after the fact so...

To top it off they don't even care about it like that and consider it a joke at this point so I'm probably just doing too much.

Don't go see bout that but if you spot him then step to him and let him know to stay in a bytches place.
 

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