If you already have something going for you that was around when you were struggling, going through hard times and had nothing, that has stood the test of time, you can count on to be there, and is good and beneficial to you, Why in fukks name would you choose something new that you already know isn't going to work that only appeared when you were doing well? That's dumb. You damn well know that you wouldn't never even be looked at or thought of if the new thing saw you under the circumstances the old thing saw past and accept you for who you were under where you only had yourself to show.
Like wisdom will tell your ass to keep what you already have and make the best out of it instead of fukking it up for some half assed bullshyt. Stop being greedy and trying to get more than what you deserve that isn't even making you happy or satisfying you. That's how folks end up with nothing.